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have you ever went through something where you have admired someone/ or you have a crush on someone. and u really like them because you think of them as kind, sweet well-mannered, etc on the outskirts of observation. And when you finally get to know the perso, u wish that you've met them at all. This is where true beauty counts.
Just because u see a person that glitters when he/she walks that means thier characteristic is the same.
So u must really observe the personnot only the manner they potray to other people, but if their personality shines in the same way of thier "phony" attitude.