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Originally Posted by Ochi Gate  no matter how painful it could be, you should always tell someone if this happens to you. if you bottle it up for years, you can develop serious mental disorders. |
I have avoided this thread for certain reasons that I'd rather not discuss but i felt like I should at least look at it and This caught my attention...
Sometimes we are afraid of the outcomes of telling someone. One can be put in worse danger for telling. There are reasons behind people not telling, just like there are reasons for bottling it up. I've had over 8 tharapists and the only one I talked to was taken from me by the court because they didn't like what she was telling them. They wanted to hear that i was all perfect and unaffected and I wasn't. She wouldn't tell them it because it wasn't true. It was the only one I talked to and eventually they gave up on trying to get to me to go into counsling. My family blamed me for what happened. Said I seduced them and it was all my fault. It's the reason why it took me so long to say anything the last time. I knew they would blame me again and what's the point in telling someone if they're going to say it's your fault? I don't bottle it up, well okay, i do but I tell those who are closest to me. If that isn't good enough... I'm sorry.