Advice Thread

Alright I know that some people have some problems and they need advice or they need an opinion on what to do. I'm going to start this thread and if you fall under this description then just post your problem.

Alright I will go first:

My husband is getting a little to controlling. I'm not allowed to find a job, talk to my friends (especially if they are a guy.) Or pretty much anything. I mean he's gotten to the point that if I ignore him he will give me a guilt trip. You all know about the time he cheated on me....Well I've been thinking maybe I would leave him. Though I don't know. I was just hurt by someone just today and I don't know what to do...I'm in tears right now and I'm just not in the greatest person in the world.

What should I do?

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Originally Posted by Ky-lyrra

Alright I know that some people have some problems and they need advice or they need an opinion on what to do. I'm going to start this thread and if you fall under this description then just post your problem.

Alright I will go first:

My husband is getting a little to controlling. I'm not allowed to find a job, talk to my friends (especially if they are a guy.) Or pretty much anything. I mean he's gotten to the point that if I ignore him he will give me a guilt trip. You all know about the time he cheated on me....Well I've been thinking maybe I would leave him. Though I don't know. I was just hurt by someone just today and I don't know what to do...I'm in tears right now and I'm just not in the greatest person in the world.

What should I do?

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That last bit isn't true at all.
If he is getting that controlling, later on it might be dangerous. I dunno.....but if he cheated on you....then I would call it quits if I were you. Find someone true to you....who wont hurt you. If he's leaving you in tears like this and cheating on you then this person isn't worth your pain. If he loves you so much he wouldn't want to hurt you in anyway possible and would give you the freedom and time you deserve. Just don't want to see you hurt is all Ky...

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Originally Posted by Ky-lyrra

Alright I will go first:

My husband is getting a little to controlling. I'm not allowed to find a job, talk to my friends (especially if they are a guy.) Or pretty much anything. I mean he's gotten to the point that if I ignore him he will give me a guilt trip. You all know about the time he cheated on me....Well I've been thinking maybe I would leave him. Though I don't know. I was just hurt by someone just today and I don't know what to do...I'm in tears right now and I'm just not in the greatest person in the world.

What should I do?

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I think you should have a serious talk with him, let him know that you don't like his controlling behavior. Also, you should also be really careful with his controlling behavior because in many marriages where either spouse (generally the husband) is in the military, He/she can resort to violence to control and terrorize its victim. If you don't feel like he is the loving person that you married, then the best thing would be to call it quits.