Thread: jealousy?

When I asked a couple of friends if getting jealous over something like your crush flirting with other girls, they said that it was okay. But my crush said that it was wrong being jelly because it was stated in the Bible. For me, it's okay to be jealous over that kind of things. It just means that you really like that person and you don't want to be separated from them. XD

ok why did the word Sex come up????

Also, its ok to be a little jealous. I know it can't be fun seeing your mothers attention go to someone one else other than you, her child. I suppose she just doesn't know how to relate to you at the moment, where you are in a relationship she doesn't quiet understand. Lizzie, I understand and what your going throw, my mother doesn't know what to do with me being in a really long distance relationship and that one day I do want to marry him. So if you ever need to chat, then talk to me.

Jealous over other girls?

XD Heck, Abu's jealousy over other girls had made me drop 99% of my friends!

For good reasons... I was a flirt.
o_o Don't blame it all on me, usually they start the flirting!
I just honestly didn't know how to respond other than by flirting back!
^^; It's my dad's genes probably, he was a regular casanova.
o_o That and I hate rejecting people, it makes me feel bad.

Originally Posted by Me just ranting

:/ Hmph, when I was in a previous relationship (and in my worst relationship), I was jealous that my online gf still kept talking about all the "hot bishounens" on her campus. And she wouldn't pass up the chance to flirt with them if they started flirting.
I was jealous as hell, but she didn't think it was a problem. And her friends concurred, they told me "It's just what girls do". HMPH.

...in pure spite, I started flirting with other women again. Something that I refused to do out of loyalty. It was just simple, non-personal, kind of flirting.
All of a sudden, her and her friends went BERSERK on me! Started yelling at me for all these things!
>_< WTF?! She was flirting with all those guys, and yet I couldn't even flirt with a single girl? How fair of a relationship is that?!

Needless to say, I dumped her. I dumped her HARD. (After several complications, of course)

It's okay to feel jealous. It's being protective over your "property". He's yours, isn't he?
You made a promise with each other, right?

So what if another woman stole him away? That wouldn't be right at all.
As his future wife, you should protect him just as he'd protect you.

Just don't let jealousy turn you into a bitter person.

Having jealousy as a form of protection (when the person needs protection) is fine.
Having jealousy as a form of protection (when the person's just fine) isn't healthy. That's just being over-protective, selfish, and insecure.


^_^ If he loves you, he'll reject every woman that comes his way. But that doesn't mean he can't have back-up from you. Let him know how much he means to you, by showing a form of protection for him.

A man who sees his woman not get jealous over him being around another woman, makes him feel like it's okay to be around other women, or that the relationship doesn't mean as much to his woman.
Just don't be too over-protective.

thanks sazzy yeah thats prob why tbh sex came into it cos just before we were ofcaly goin out some girl just totally wanted sex of him and stuff and he didnt do it cos he loved me and thanks for saying i can talk to u and thanks soshi i understand abit of jealosy is ok and he knows it that its me protecting him cos i love him

and don't be afraid to totally punch a girl in her nads if that's what it takes for her to BACK THE F*** OFF!!!


^_^ Soshi's mine, and i intend to keep it that way!

and as for jealousy over your Mom's friends, it's okay for you to feel hurt and jealous! you're her daughter, and she should give you a bit more attention! or at the very least not make such a big scene about other people in front of you!

oh, and personally, i think you should learn how to use a gun to keep the girls off... but that's just me...

^_~ and i can be a little extreme!

Lizzie, your mom is funny as well as your sisters. Don't let them make you feel jealous, its plain silly to do so. Lol, Phil seems to be a nice guy, can't wait to see you two in about two years from now. I expect my wine and cookies to be ready when i arrive there

@ Sarah, are you moving to the states with solking anytime soon? If so, let me know, me pays you two a visit

yeah kei red wine isnt it?!! LOL yeah well see we will be together but god only knows how it will be ^^ >< in 2 years im just finished school....thats if i get back in next year