Doesn't matter what anyone thinks.
If you want to see him, see him.
^^ I know that Abu and I snuck away from parents to meet each other (despite the fact they REALLY REALLY REALLY didn't want us to meet)... And though we were caught and had Hell the days that followed, we endured just so we could stay together!
Love knows no bounds. Don't give up!
.... just don't get pregnant yet. As much as you'd love to have his child, make sure you have enough years for each other as a couple, not as parents (though parents love one another, their time alone together is cut at least in half).
(Abu and I aren't gonna' have kids for a good while. We want some amazing years together as a couple first)