Sazzy

Ok so I don't know how many people know what my job is, so if you didn't know I am a Bar and Restaurant Casual at a Sailing Club on the Isle of Wight. But really my job sucks!!!!!! I would gladly go back to Uni for free and spend another three years there. Honestly, anything will be better than remaining in a job where my work hardly goes unnoticed. Only some of the customers who I serve thank me for looking after them and give like £9 in tips, which sadly gets shared between the kitchen staff and other waiting staff, So for all my hard work I don't even get much at all. Plus the fact that when I do work I get shouted at by the head chef for not doing work when I am trying to take a breather.

Recently, I've been working on shifts where there is only two waiting staff on and I am the one running around trying to do almost everything and no one else notices. It just takes the buscit when I tried so hard to do a good job and look after customers that it goes unnoticed and I end up coming home really stressed because I don't get rewarded. Its just a good thing that I only asked for a few shifts a week so I can study Web Design (which I haven't really doing... well unless you count working photoshop??). But I quit once and thenI got a call like the next day asking for me to go back and I stupidly did. I am such a idiot for doing that!!!

The other thing that gets me, is that most of them are really nosey too. They are always asking how my relationship is going and two of them even keep asking me if I have left him yet? Just because its a long distance relationship, it doesn't mean its already going to clearly fail. We will have been dating for two years in November. I know I feel about him because it took me a year for my feelings to show and I am not going to let it slip away from me that easily. I even don't talk about my personal life that much with them because they don't understand and its a good thing I don't too. My experience in life has taught me to trust wisely and never trust too easily!

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Abu Dhabi

^___^ Abu agrees that Sazzy should punch them in the face and quit!
=___= but if you really need the money, gah, that truly sucks...

and one thing i've learned if people don't like your relationship with your Darling, just nod smile and tell them to f*** off in your own head... ^_^ it would be wonderful for everyone to understand how you feel, but some just like their head stuck in the stupid corner! gah...

watch this and feel better! -->Where the Hell is Matt? (2008)

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xxoxx

Dman it...How the life is too tough..? O,O but you know try to search for another work in another bar or restaurant where you can feel more comfortable , have a peace mind …and a bout your relationship with your BF No one in this earth can break you up from your lover believe me, and the other Just Go to Hell & Don't care a bout what the other think about your relationship ..

ketaro

I feel you there Sarah. It really sucks that they don't acknowledge the fact that you work really hard, but it goes unnoticed.

I don't want to sound rude or anything, but is that the only job available in your area? Perhaps, it is time for you to find a better well paying job.

Nonetheless, i hope that your situation gets better.

Sincerely,

Ketaro.

Sazzy

I tried to get a differernt job but I am not a chef and I don't have a car as its cheaper than getting the bus. I didn't get the last job I applied for and I haven't heard back from them about the waitressing job.

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ketaro

Oh, i see. Its waitressing the only job you can get where uyou live? Have you tried the retail or fast food industry?

Sazuka

NOOOOOOOO.

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Legend

Yeah obviously someone never had a job before. Retail...

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