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    Halp!!!

    As i was growing up my great parents taught me to be a nice to everybody. Although, in the last couple of months i have been walked all over by the people i have trusted, cared and loved (mostly females). For some reason i am starting to believe that being nice is worthless and a waste of time. Is there a way to be a jerk and nice at the same time without feeling guilty about the jerk part?

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    Re: Halp!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by ketaro View Post
    As i was growing up my great parents taught me to be a nice to everybody. Although, in the last couple of months i have been walked all over by the people i have trusted, cared and loved (mostly females). For some reason i am starting to believe that being nice is worthless and a waste of time. Is there a way to be a jerk and nice at the same time without feeling guilty about the jerk part?
    Yes, what you need is positive reinforcement from guy friends when you are being a jerk. If you're believe you're doing nothing wrong, youre doing nothing wrong.

    'Cause you give me something / That makes me scared, alright / This could be nothing / But I'm willing to give it a try / Please give me something
    'Cause someday I might call you from my heart

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    Re: Halp!!!

    In all honesty, you don't have to be a jerk to do jerkish things.
    You don't have to be an ass to do asshole-ish things.

    Being nice doesn't mean bending over when people ask/tell you to.
    Being nice doesn't mean allowing everyone to walk all over you.

    That's called being a pushover, being a pussy, being a mat, being a whatever you want to call it.
    Sure, they say if they slap you on one cheek, you turn and let them slap the other - but that's if it gets something done.

    Most people don't understand the messages other people try to get across with humility, kindness, and fairness. Most people take advantage of those things and shrug it off, pretending that any other person would do the same.

    ...ever heard of righteous judgment? Something that supposedly only the Heavens may cast upon others. That was originally stated just to make sure that the masses didn't constantly beat people up / kill people / steal things / whatever, and just claimed "righteous judgment".

    ...the idea of righteous judgment went out of hand, especially during the Salem Witch Trials and other atrocities throughout history.

    But righteous judgment does exist, and it can be put upon by people, against people.
    The only problem is, most people can't do that kind of judgment because their judgment is always off.
    Just because one man kills someone you love, does not mean you should kill them.
    Just because one man steals from you, does not mean you should steal from them.

    That's not righteous, that's playing the same game.

    You wanna' do this right while being nice?
    You wanna' get back at them while having full right to?
    Legally speaking, you can't. Because the legal system is so generic in judgment - that even criminals can seem innocent in every technicality.

    You're going to have to ignore the rules put down by governments and communities and follow your own sound judgment.
    If you get it right, it'll be over and satisfaction will be felt.
    If you get it wrong, you'll either feel guilt or have even more trouble at your doorstep.

    Fact is, you should only show people humility if they will learn from you. If they will never learn, never give them a chance to gain ANY benefit throughout their life, even if they "can change".
    Many people refuse to learn from kindness and other acts of "goodness", these people must be dealt with accordingly.

    If they constantly refuse to learn, you should constantly refuse them any chance or trust.
    ...I'm not saying kill them or anything. Though it is always a nice idea in the head.

    I'm saying, either leave 'em or tell 'em to **** off. Don't let them take advantage of you. Fight back if you have to. There's nothing wrong with that.
    Legally speaking, there is.
    Right/wrong concerned: There's nothing wrong with it.
    Nothing bad treating people harshly if they never learn from you anyways. Something big should happen in their lives that'll wake them up and smell their own shit. If that something big has to be you, and if it has to be you doing something "awful" to them, then so be it. They brought this upon themselves.

    If you're believe you're doing nothing wrong, youre doing nothing wrong.
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    Re: Halp!!!

    well, Soshi already covered everything...

    but as for Abu's solution...

    get new friends

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    Re: Halp!!!

    @Soshi: I get the impression that you were once a nice guy lol.

    Well, the thing though is that i was brainwashed to be freaking nice, heck if i hadn't i would probably be the biggest jerk you'll ever know.

    @Abu: All my friends are jerks, amongst them i think i am the nicest of all. New friends that i could take advantage of sounds nice (^_^)x..

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    Re: Halp!!!

    Usually...being mean can be translated to need of something...instead of unleashing needles wrath on others (or feeling the wish to do so)...you should start searching for the one thing you think you are lacking.

    Most of times, believe it or not, it's confidence in general...however, it could also be some other things like...money....love...a new videogame.

    If you feel happy, or complete, there's no need to be mean to anyone...though I will say, there are very few (if none) persons who have achieved that in the history of humanity

    And soshi is right....being nice doesn't mean having yourself at the will and whim of others...after all, we all started life the same way, in that sense, we should all be equal without even considering laws or religion....

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    Re: Halp!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by ketaro View Post
    @Soshi: I get the impression that you were once a nice guy lol.

    Well, the thing though is that i was brainwashed to be freaking nice, heck if i hadn't i would probably be the biggest jerk you'll ever know.

    @Abu: All my friends are jerks, amongst them i think i am the nicest of all. New friends that i could take advantage of sounds nice (^_^)x..
    The key is not being a jerk, but be a smart one. The best jerks are the ones that know what buttons to press when it comes to females, and acting nice wrapped with the nastiest stuff inside.

    'Cause you give me something / That makes me scared, alright / This could be nothing / But I'm willing to give it a try / Please give me something
    'Cause someday I might call you from my heart

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    Re: Halp!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by ketaro View Post
    As i was growing up my great parents taught me to be a nice to everybody. Although, in the last couple of months i have been walked all over by the people i have trusted, cared and loved (mostly females). For some reason i am starting to believe that being nice is worthless and a waste of time. Is there a way to be a jerk and nice at the same time without feeling guilty about the jerk part?
    When you finally found out how.. then you're totally a jerk already

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