Thread: Bag of awesome.

OOoooooooh your signature is naughty...


Anyway, I could never have my hands out. Unless I was asking my family... not a man though. I guess I feel like I'd WANT to help my man. Like that is what partners do. Help each other. So if he wanted to he would be pulling your hand out. As to his, not paying bills or keeping track of baby milk... Sometimes you have to recognize your partners weaknesses and try to have some strength of your own to compensate. That's why relationships are challenging when you have two people with similar strengths and weakness.
My mother always made sure the bills were paid growing up. But my father never really had a problem with giving up his funds to the cause. And I can totally see baby's milk being more on the womanly side of responsibilities. I don't mean to be sexist or generalize. I'm just sayin'.... its baby's milk... We are the all powerful producers of milk for the babies. I realize were talkin' formula. I also am not saying that men dont own some responsibility ... but still....

Originally Posted by Peach_follows

OOoooooooh your signature is naughty...


Anyway, I could never have my hands out. Unless I was asking my family... not a man though. I guess I feel like I'd WANT to help my man. Like that is what partners do. Help each other. So if he wanted to he would be pulling your hand out. As to his, not paying bills or keeping track of baby milk... Sometimes you have to recognize your partners weaknesses and try to have some strength of your own to compensate. That's why relationships are challenging when you have two people with similar strengths and weakness.
My mother always made sure the bills were paid growing up. But my father never really had a problem with giving up his funds to the cause. And I can totally see baby's milk being more on the womanly side of responsibilities. I don't mean to be sexist or generalize. I'm just sayin'.... its baby's milk... We are the all powerful producers of milk for the babies. I realize were talkin' formula. I also am not saying that men dont own some responsibility ... but still....

I don't have income. And I don't currently have a way to procure one at this point and our family needs things. And the only reason he was expected to beresponcible for it is because HE was the last one to deal with it. and it was in HIS car. And he's not responcible about ANYTHING except going to work, and bairly that. So it's NOT acceptible. Period. I'm sleeping on his daddys goddamn floor four months pregnant because he doesn't and didn't handle his buisness the way he should have. We're broke and HOMELESS at this point. And thats not ok.
I'm pregnant stressed out sickand misrible, I cant be responcible for everything. I can't deal with myself, the baby and all her responcibility and the things we'd agreed he would be responcible for. That's bullshit anyways, what exactly is he doing here then? He makes me feel like wayside trash most of the time. He doesn't listen to my goddamn concerns or isses without making me feel stupid or worse then I did in the first place and he out right ignores me sometimes. So if Ic an't expect emotional support, an I can't expect financial support and I can't expect SHARED responciblity of OUR child, what the heck am I doing in this relationship exactly?