Shippo101 (Sep 20, 2009)
It depends on the couple... ^^ if they are strong enough to fight every obstacle in their way...
I'm in such relationship my self... to tell you the truth... it's harder than it looks.. o.o well my new poem might let you understand a bit of how I feel.. posting it in AO in a minute... lol
My opinion... love can come from variety of ways... even when you never seen the person .. in person.. love can still develop o.o it's a mysterious "force" that links us all.. and yes.. I do love some of my friend here in AO ^^ and especially her..
My advise.. stay true and honest with each other... a little white lie could hurt the trust and your counter part's feelings deeply... might not be able to mend it at all / easily.. this relationship has a lot of risks.. so... be careful along the way and don't over do it ^^
Though.. I wonder who that favourite couple of yours is? o.o
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Shippo101 (Sep 20, 2009)
Yes, you all have a good point. Me and my very close friend have talked about these things. He doesn’t want to move because his family is all he knows, and I cant move because i have no money, and I cant depend on him to help me out all the time if i did move.
Me and him talked over that love is a short lived thing. Sooner or later physical contact is needed to kept that fire that burns in us alive. And Skype isn’t gonna cut it when one of us feels lonely.
*sigh* and like Rayme said trust is something we'll need to take the place of physical contact and Im one to make accusations in a heartbeat.
Then as Rose said. Race, religion, and customs will most def put a strain on our lives. I'm Bi racial with no true beliefs, and i live however the wind blows free spirit rebel. And he's this religious, 100% Buddhist, 100% Korean dude. >.< Please don’t let me get started on age…
Its true that it not gonna really work out for us. But one more question?
Whats the time span for this kind of relationship to last at the most? And you still never see each other?
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I think that is the right decision. But I know that even though it is probably right some part of you may still hurt. I hope you feel alright.
Indeed, it may hurt if and when you part ways, but at least you were able to talk about it.
As far as how long it will last... It depends on you guys. Every couple is different, and there's no set time span or anything like that... It's hard to predict emotions.
Best of luck to you both though. ^.^
Scourge (Sep 21, 2009)
If you feel like giving up on the relationship, you might as well end it short and quick. Because if you thought you had real possibilities together, you would consider changing your point of view. Taking that real leap of faith, for better or for worse. And doing whatever it takes, if you felt that real connection, that they were the only one that you could truly be happy with. To me it doesn't really sound like you are that serious about it.
Relationships last as long as you let them last.
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every relationship stand on how the two can fight for their love and their existence together , you are as an example you see that there is a lot of problems stand in the way but believe me you , me , anyone can't know what this life carry for us , maybe tomorrow will wake up and everything is good and there is no problems or you woe up and everything have changed and wish from all my heart that this will never happen to you and to him or to anyone ^_^ ...
that is have to do with how strong both of you to stand for this relationship ^,^ ...Whats the time span for this kind of relationship to last at the most? And you still never see each other?
and i hope from all my heart the best for you too X3 ... =^_^=
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my boyfriends lives miles away far from me too, we just keep our communication active, thats why theres ym/msn/skype and the phone.
The secret to make a long distance relationship work is to TRUST each other,
and don't let him/her feel how the worlds keeps u getting both away from each other.
and hold on.