Thread: aggresive or passive?

Originally Posted by Guardiandemonhate

which would you rather in a relationship and why?

to be honest either one for me, i like a girl who can do things herself but i think it's cute when girls depend on me as well. I really have no preference but how about you?

As a passive person myself, I need someone aggressive. Not too aggressive, though; that's just scary!

Personally I don't like dating it seems like a waste of time to me. You won't believe all the pretty girls and handsome guys I turned down who asked me out. Anyway since I'm talking hypothetically I think we would both be aggressive. I'm aggressive and a passive girlfriend or wife would piss me off.

Thoguh I officially made a decision today to give on love until I'm older, I'd have to go with both a balance of Passivness and Agressivness. I'd want a girl who is kind, caring, compassionate, but also not afraid to kick me in the shin or something like that to show me how she feels.

Well I'm abit firey so I'd like someone who is able to put me in my place at times but someone who also able to keep up with me. So I'd have to say mostly dominate or either very quick whitted.

I'm passive and I am attracted to aggresive guys. I'd hate to have to be the man of the relationship...again, lol. But yeah, I don't mind a passive person just as long as he can defend himself and kick butt for me.

Post needs to be more specific, in my opinion.

Do you mean the relationship as a whole to be passive or aggresive?
Or do you mean for someone in the relationship to dominate it?
Or what? What is it that you want from me?!


ANYwho,
I believe a relationship should be equal. BOTH people involved (or more.. in this crazy world we live in you don't know WHAT to expect) should have an equal say as to what they want. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where I'd make all the decisions and whatnot because it'd get boring. And I wouldn't want a relationship where my significant other would be trying to play macho man. Helllll no. =]

THUS, both people should say what they want and should make their decisions together. They should function as a whole.
Like a peanut butter & Jelly sandwich, if you will.

You can't possibly have one without the other, because then it wouldn't be a peanut butter & jelly sandwich. It'd just be a ... peanut butter sandwich. With jelly.

Ew.

Is this confusing to you?

i would like to be in a relationship with a passive person who can also stant up for herself