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    Answer my question.

    Well I have a girlfriend that actually she use to be only my friend, but i find out that she likes me and she was sad because i got many girlfriends except for her. So i didn't want to see her sad and so down. In the end i ask her out, she is happy right now, but the problem is that I don't really like her.
    What should I do???

    can u give me some advise?

    I will be thankful.
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    Re: Answer my question.

    well, it's not really fair to lead someone on. you wouldn't want someone leading you on, would you? so, you care for her obviously, or you wouldn't have been her friend. I think you should tell her that you would rather be friends. be sure to be gentle though.
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    Re: Answer my question.

    I agree with Naomi.

    I have to say too, you're a really good friend. It was cool of you to care so much about her feelings that you were willing to at least TRY to see if a relationship would work. You knew it was what she wanted... Even if YOU werent as interested. That makes you a good friend.

    But you can't really help who you're attracted to. Its not your fault that you don't feel the same way about her, as she feels about you. So yeah... be as considerate of her feelings as you seems to always be, and let her down easy. Hopefully she'll still be willing to be friends. (I know first hand how hard it is to be "just friends" with someone you really want to be with.)
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    Re: Answer my question.

    thanks, I appreciate ur advice. And i hope we can be friends
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    Re: Answer my question.

    They are right. It isnt fair to a girl who is into you and just lead them on. I should know the last person I was with did the samething to me. I was heart broken when he told me the only reason he was with me was to get to my best friend. Let her down gentle BUT imply that you STILL want to be friends and that maybe one day you two can actually be together when your feelings for her grow. Until then I believe the friendship will over power anything. Remember as long as your honest with her (yes she will be upset and heart broken and all these other things but honesty is the best thing to do) she has to understand and I believe she will.
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    Re: Answer my question.

    endure and give time. you don't go into sudden conclusion, just give time and study her actions if it's really love or just a misunderstood love. this is why i don't go on a relationship.
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