AniManga Hound

I always thought you should wait (holy crap, almost just forgot how to spell 'wait') until you have maybe a car (or at least a license) and some money before asking a girl (or guy) out.

I mean, you kind of look like a douche/asshole if your mom or dad drives you and your date to dinner, then have to pick you up again afterwards...

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kedar

Ehehe, so, is your question how one can ask a girl [or a guy] to go out with him/her, and the prerequisites to be out on dates?

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Blade X

lol depends on wut age u r, i mean if u're older n is at the age of able to drive by urself then if it would seen as uncool in today's society. If u're at college/ university n u're staying with ur parents, tht might be seen as uncool. Depends really, if u're out for some fun then i guess yes those requirements are needed. Otherwise, if u take it slow n stuff she aint gonna mind 2 much so along as u do plan on getting ur license to drive n stuff. n O btw it's the guy who pays for the dinner usually so make sure u have ur cash with u.

mmm either than tht ur question is kinda vague since u havent set a scenario or anything

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ketaro

Are you asking if you feel like a stupid guy or girl when your mom or dad drives you to where you and your date are suppose to meet? well, i don't see anything wrong with that, i mean if you don't have a mean of transportation is kool that your mom or dad drives to the places you want to go.

juLLiE_cHu

^agree's. ^-^ yes. it doe salso depend on the age..but I've never encountered that before 0.o If a grl is lucky enough to have her parents drive her and her date..or it could also be for a special occasion ^-^ that a guys parents picks up the girl..I don't see anything wrong with it...and guys usually don't have to pay for grls on dates -_-" girls pay for guys sometimes..its called..helping...(right?) lol..

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blue_rebel

I don't see why a guy needs to have a car before he can ask a girl out. I mean, look, some people don't even get their own car till they're out of university. You surely don't mean to say that a guy's gotta wait till he's finished his undergraduate course before he can legally go on a date with a girl?

There are other means of transport. Monorail. LRT (or MRT if you're Singaporean). Bus. As long as it gets you to where you wanna go. I'm not too picky about transport.

I wouldn't say the guy who asks me out has to have his own car, but he should know how to drive. That way he can just borrow his mom/dad's car (which is what a lot of teens in Malaysia do). It costs $$$ to buy a new car, ya know. And yeah, he obviously has to be able to go dutch... which is why I think people should only start dating in high school. A little later's fine too. I don't particularly fancy too-late bloomers.

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ZeRoGravity

Money, yes. Car, no. Another way is get a scooter.

Get a scooter like a Vespa and make her wrap her arms around your waist. Get more intimate with each other means more chances that she will stay longer with you till night ends. Allll Riiighhtt.

jaam0927

u dont need a car, or licence, Ive been going out on my own since Im 13, u know taking the bus and cabs(that wasnt here in the US).... so I didnt really depended on anyone when I was on a date, like if I was to pick up the girl, I got a bus and went to her house, and then take a cab(who in their right minds is going to take a date on the bus?) to what ever place we where going.... or if we were to meet there, I just took the bus.... but the one big factor u need for a date is money .... fortunately for me I used to work and didnt really need my parents to give me the money, but they gave it to me anyway.... so in conclusion u dont need a car or someone to drive u and your date, but u definately need money! sometimes trying to get a girl can give a hard hit to your wallet...

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zeroenix

Ehh... I don't think you should have to have a car, but I see where your coming from. I have seen a lot of guys with girlfriends that don't have a car, or even work at all. I think it's kind of stupid but, to each his/her own. I personally believe that around highschool is where you should start dating. When you first start dating, you have a lot of things to learn. I think it's best off to get the embaressment out when you are still like 16, rather than face it at 20... But not everyone matures at the same time I guess.

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Baal

Well u dont allways need a car to go with a date if ur going as a group with ur people some1 can drop u of and wait for date and go to a movie or to eat.. and u allways gotta have the money if u cant pay you're girls needs ur a poor imbecil.

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perdoname michelle!

AniManga Hound

I wasn't asking anything, actually. I was merely thinking in the form of a post on this forum.

And I'm not talking of personal experience either. I haven't actually ever had a girlfriend. I'm not waiting until I get a license either, it's just that I'm extraordinarily shy about such things. I'm thinking, 'well, if she actually likes me, then she'll approach ME eventually.' I'm just hoping that SHE isn't thinking 'well, if he actually likes me, then he'll approach ME eventually,' in which case, we're both screwed out of possible relationship because we're too god damn shy to approach one another. All being hypothetical, of course.

Anyway. The situation I'm in, meaning my extremely rural little cow town, means, that there are no buses or taxis around. I always laugh when I here a thirteen or fourteen year old boy say something like, 'I'm taking my girlfriend out to dinner tonight!' because it's actually the mother or father of the boy that's taking the boy and girl out to dinner.

All I'm saying is that in my environment, you look varying degrees of lame if you ask a girl out while lacking one or mor eof the following: 1. a car 2. a license 3. a job 4. money.


Of course, I'm sure I look equally lame to those I'm insulting lacking both a first kiss and any girlfriend ever while retaining virginity.

Lack of virginity, though, usually only pertains to the older juniors or seniors, most of which have a job, money, car, and license, so I don't even insult them anyway.

Now back to learning how to juggle...







Hmm, I wonder how I would approach I girl I like?

In other words, how did you first approach the person you liked?

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