The best way to get the attention of a male/female

AnimeGeek · Oct 04, 2006, 06:51 PM

Hello all AO members,

I was curious once again... how would you get the attention of a male/female if you saw them but never knew them and wanted to get to know them. And ideas???

Kaxilirzea · Oct 04, 2006, 07:04 PM

A nice little smile always works for me!!! And if you are a very social person then you shouldn't be afraid and start talking to him!!!

Sometimes, i try to see if his friends are the same as mine, and just try to get to him through them!!!

Or if an oportunity comes, and you guys are in the same place and moment, don't be afraid to be a conversation starter!!! Talk about anything and after a while, say "By the way, my name is...", like I said before, it always works for me!!!

Oct 04, 2006, 07:08 PM

Hit them over the head with a club. Then Take them Home, tie them up and let the whole Hostage thing work its magic... Thats always worked for me.

Or learn to play an instrument, grow long hair, BANG! Instant popularity

(ages 13-18)

gren · Oct 04, 2006, 07:15 PM

I know I'll sound like a mom about this (I'm not), but the best thing to do is be yourself. Don't go out trying to attract someone, just be happy with who you are and what you do, and others will be drawn to you (trust me, I speak from experience).

*princesslady* · Oct 04, 2006, 07:35 PM

dont be an ass!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and dont be a total jerk. be polite

*Dark.* · Oct 04, 2006, 07:45 PM

I've always found flashing someone to be a real eye opener for the anyone in the area....

Of course if you're not into public exposure, winking, goo-goo eyes, depends on who you want to pick up I guess. Some people stick their tongues out or give a dirty look at someone, that can be a good attention getter. Usually making obscene gestures doesn't work, unless, you know, they're into that sort of thing.

mystical shadow angel · Oct 04, 2006, 09:54 PM

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Originally Posted by fma1012

How about you just go up to he or she and say hi? Lol not so hard.

Haha lol yeah, I'd just go and say hi to them. But that's me - there are a lot of people who aren't as, how should I put it - brave? If talking to them isn't an option, dress like a clown and start juggling bright coloured objects on a unicycle - you're guaranteed to draw their attention. XD

Ok, honestly - just go and talk to them. I think it's the best and most effective first step towards getting to know someone. It's better than spying on them, and stalking them to get more information.

*Mr. K* · Oct 04, 2006, 09:57 PM

XD

What kinda attendtion are we talking here~

Anywho~

I always found a little eye contact here and there, and "There"

He's talking to ya~

deftbeat · Oct 05, 2006, 04:38 AM

a smile would do and maybe a little eye contact too

but dont stare

Avenara · Oct 05, 2006, 06:17 AM

I walked up and start a conversation. I ask them about themselves, tell them about me, and believe me if you don't have anything in common you don't want to be dating them anyway. So don't be afraid to tell them what you really like and dislike. Be honest about your opinions and if the two of you have a lot in common ask them if they want to see a movie or something.

lightningsykes · Oct 05, 2006, 09:35 AM

just be yourself and relax if you show your nervous then you will just make an ass of yourself so be yourself and say hi

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Kaxilirzea Newbie Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: I live in Ponce, Puerto Rico but i am from Guayama Posts: 7 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 110	A nice little smile always works for me!!! And if you are a very social person then you shouldn't be afraid and start talking to him!!! Sometimes, i try to see if his friends are the same as mine, and just try to get to him through them!!! Or if an oportunity comes, and you guys are in the same place and moment, don't be afraid to be a conversation starter!!! Talk about anything and after a while, say "By the way, my name is...", like I said before, it always works for me!!! Last edited by Kaxilirzea; Oct 04, 2006 at 07:08 PM. Reason: I wanted to add more
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gren PIGGY!! Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Chicago Posts: 845 Thanks: 0 Thanked 19 Times in 15 Posts Credits: 15,862	I know I'll sound like a mom about this (I'm not), but the best thing to do is be yourself. Don't go out trying to attract someone, just be happy with who you are and what you do, and others will be drawn to you (trust me, I speak from experience). __________________ Gren's Music sig by zyta Say Hi
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Dark. Whoa. Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: U.S. Posts: 1,840 Thanks: 0 Thanked 8 Times in 7 Posts Credits: 7,231	I've always found flashing someone to be a real eye opener for the anyone in the area.... Of course if you're not into public exposure, winking, goo-goo eyes, depends on who you want to pick up I guess. Some people stick their tongues out or give a dirty look at someone, that can be a good attention getter. Usually making obscene gestures doesn't work, unless, you know, they're into that sort of thing. __________________ "Have you ever had a dream, that you were so sure was real? What if you were unable to wake from that dream? How would you know the difference between the dream world and the real world?"
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-=Tumble_Dry=- Guest Posts: n/a Credits: 0	Hit them over the head with a club. Then Take them Home, tie them up and let the whole Hostage thing work its magic... Thats always worked for me. Or learn to play an instrument, grow long hair, BANG! Instant popularity (ages 13-18)

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Avenara Newbie Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: NY Posts: 54 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 210	I walked up and start a conversation. I ask them about themselves, tell them about me, and believe me if you don't have anything in common you don't want to be dating them anyway. So don't be afraid to tell them what you really like and dislike. Be honest about your opinions and if the two of you have a lot in common ask them if they want to see a movie or something.
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lightningsykes Newbie Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: tupelo Posts: 37 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 10	just be yourself and relax if you show your nervous then you will just make an ass of yourself so be yourself and say hi __________________
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