Thread: Can the fallen find..love?

Yes she can. Love comes in many forms, so there is always going to be some one there to look out for you.

And being hurt has it's good points. It can help in the healing process as it makes you a stronger person.

I agree with Neo, there will allways be some one out there for you, you just have to find them and love can be many things

i agree with the other two, love is something everyone should feel, i should know, i have had my heart broken five times before.

Yepyep. Someone who has fallen can find love in someone's arms. If you can't find that someone then go to God. He is always there for us. Besides, God'll give you that someone. You just have to wait. Who knows. That someone just might be beside with you.

Been there, felt that and I can tell you for sure that you can find love after having been... well... ripped off. My ex dumped me, then hit me in the face because I did not want to get together with him *rolls eyes* I though I'd never get over it and never will be able to trust another guy. But I was surely wrong, I have found the best man ever!!! ^^ hehehe

The main thing is to learn from your experience and to be more carefull when starting a relationship with someone. I for example learned that if a guy does not change because you seriously dislike something in him, it wont probably work out (of course you must understand that you must do the same for him).

I have had my heart ripped out as well, every one has and yet you still see people find that some one eventually. When you have gone through a break up, either caused by you or some one else, you learn from that experience to make better decisions about people or to better your self to have your self to be more open and accepting and less controlling, so on and so forth. Or to look back and see how much you are willing to give for that some one and how hard you tried to save what you had, it’s a good indicator on who you are as a person. Sure it sucks and it hurts, but when your head clears up and you wipe away those tears or anger you will look back and say to your self "I did the best I could, but I am wiser now and can make better decisions on guys/girls and how to go about things"... or... "Wow, I was a real f*** ass, I better get my act together."

How ever there are many people out there who completely ignore or are oblivious on this reflection aspect because they get it all jumbled up and backwards saying it was or was not there fault when in fact it was the other way around, or just ignore the lessen completely for many reason, or because they simply do not care and like being ass holes as all they care about is lust.

Like many other people, I too have my heart ripped out in the sake of love. But like scourge said, you learn from your past pains, and you can make better decisions from them. And besides, this is just my opinion, I doubt that anyone finds love right off the bat. It takes times and patience to find that one true love you were searching for.