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    Re: Can You Accept Short Term Relationship? (why?)

    there was this girl i wanted to go out with, but i guess i was too slow, and she went out with somebody else. it really sucked too, b/c i'm pretty shure she knew i liked her

    Oh well, right? i would have kinda been in the same perdicament, because i have like 2 weeks of hell (oh, i mean school) left and then i'm off to college.

    like mentioned above, unless you are like a guy i know and thinks only of sex, a short term relationship is kinda worthless. all it does is make peoiple feel bad

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    Re: Can You Accept Short Term Relationship? (why?)

    Quote Originally Posted by kyzr View Post
    I'm in a similar spot [though a little less serious, at the moment].

    This guy and I, we're so great... really, we are. He's funny, and smart, and attractive, and he has good taste... and he thinks all the same of me. And I really like to look at him, I like it when he's smiling... he kisses my forehead and for half a second I can't think. And I just want to talk with him, and be with him all the time.

    But he's going to college in like 3 months. And I'm afraid we'll end there. It's a little scary... I'm not in love with him, but I won't deny that I'm a little attached, and I want to see this grow.
    But is he going away for college, or one thats nearby?

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    Re: Can You Accept Short Term Relationship? (why?)

    If you're greedy about these things, like I am, short term relationships are actually great for you. You'll have the satisfaction of a relationship or whatever you're after, be it sex or not, and then move on to the next, exciting new relationship. And, if you're as much of a jerk as I am, breaking up is in no way uncomfortable as I no longer hold any interest in the matter. So, for me, it's an entirely good thing.

    And no, I am not saying this is how you should act, rather, I am stating an opinion based on my perspective on the world. So don't flame me too much

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    Re: Can You Accept Short Term Relationship? (why?)

    Probably not and distance relationships are hard to deal with. If you haven't seen the person in a while you might try to get with someone else. I think it's better to get with someone that's not really far away from you. And the person could have moved on for all you know.

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    Re: Can You Accept Short Term Relationship? (why?)

    NO!

    why would you enter into a relationshp knowing it's supposed to end eventually. i mean, the reason why you enter a relationship is to find that special someone who you can spend the rest of your life with... entering into a relationship will mean invesing in it's growth and suffering in it's failure...

    ihave never really understood the reason for a fling where peope just call it a "trip"... it not only puts weight on the one that does develop feelings... and embed a concience (if ever the person has one) on the one who left.

    i enter a relationship accepting the fact that it might end eventually, if it doesn't work out.. but i put into it my everything... because i search for the one i will e with forever. not just someone to sepnd one night with... not just someone to keep me company for the time being... not someone who i just intend to use.. but human as we are... if it doesn;t work then it's time to end it...

    overall... i nevr enter a relationship which puts a timer on everything that is supposed to happen from there on out, including the ending... because it puts a limit to how far and how fast you should get there... a relationship i seeked to find someone to last a lifeime with you... and not some proposterous game to find out who gets tired of the relationship first...
    i'll choose to love whoever i wish to love and nobody can stop me from doing so ----

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    Re: Can You Accept Short Term Relationship? (why?)

    Gee... that is kinda sad... but congrats on being able to continue your studies by the way... ^^

    Lets see... why don't the both of you be more patient and wait.. or.. do something to get him there as well... ^^ 5 years... i would wait... yea.. like i wrote in my poem...

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    Lol ^^ to me... if i found a special person.. and truly loves the person.. i'd do anything to keep the relationship intact unless it is too impossible to... A few AO members here practices long distance relationship.. including me... ^^ i bet one by one will show up and express thier views.. but to me... long distance for a period of time... its not forever... at least you know when you will be back... and good luck for the both of you ^^

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    Re: Can You Accept Short Term Relationship? (why?)

    Yep. It'll be painful, but if the two of you think it's worth keeping even over such a long distance, why not give it a go? I hear the rewards of being patient in circumstances such as those are immense.

    But if you were to ask me if I'd like to be in a short-term relationship, I'll be blunt: No. Getting together with someone for a couple of weeks or months simply because "the feeling's right" just wouldn't do, if it'll just break the other person's heart eventually anyway.
    Plus ça change, plus c'est la même chose.

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    Re: Can You Accept Short Term Relationship? (why?)

    well there is nothing wrong with long-distance relationship,if your love is true and if he truly loves you,he'll surely wait for you,
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