Thread: can you be happy?

Ask A scientologist...... lol


Im happy right now.. So I think that about awnsers your question.

I think the problem is more prominent in women than men. I have no girlfriend, I'm just fine, I enjoy the freedom of not worrying about the complications of a relationship and being able to hang out with the guys just whenever. Girls just seemed to be pressured more than guys sometimes I think. Because if a girl likes to just hang out with guys, everyone labels her a slut or whore, but if a guy hangs out with chicks, he's either a pimp, lady's man, or gay. In the end it really boils down to what kind of person you are socially speaking.

Originally Posted by baikuza

i think... human can be happy because we have something that make us happy from others's.

we need something/someone to be happy...
even you/me only have one..
no other than God.(if you believe in God)

hm... that is my argument...

I agree with that, everybody needs something/someone to be happy no matter what, doesn't matter who or what now does it. ^^

Yeah I can be happy without being in a relationship. You have to love yourself in order to be happy. You don't really need a guy to actually make you feel good or happy. My "mom", which means a mom from another family which isn't real or a step (lol), told me that when I confessed everything to her. Mostly I told her my personal problems and told me that she wouldn't tell my family and gave me GREAT advice. She says you dont need a guy/girl just to make you feel happy. You gotta love yourself first and if you love yourself, then other people would love you as well. If they don't and you love yourself, they're just jealous. lol so yeah... I'm not saying you dont need anyone. A best friend is good to be there for you whenever you have problems and want a shoulder to cry on. =)

i think its a possiblity, depending on wat kind of person you are.
my goal is to marry my best friend
i think ive got him!!
but i belive it would be possible, depends on if you are independent enough to do it, but just think, never being tied down.. dating all the time
might be bliss

Originally Posted by For3v3r_Lost

Yeah I can be happy without being in a relationship. You have to love yourself in order to be happy. You don't really need a guy to actually make you feel good or happy. My "mom", which means a mom from another family which isn't real or a step (lol), told me that when I confessed everything to her. Mostly I told her my personal problems and told me that she wouldn't tell my family and gave me GREAT advice. She says you dont need a guy/girl just to make you feel happy. You gotta love yourself first and if you love yourself, then other people would love you as well. If they don't and you love yourself, they're just jealous. lol so yeah... I'm not saying you dont need anyone. A best friend is good to be there for you whenever you have problems and want a shoulder to cry on. =)

yes.. i'm agree to.
if we love our self we will be loved by other.. but not to ego..and selfish..
but.. in the content of when you can not be accepted by other people around you.. the only who can make you happy is your self (and..God.. if you believe on it). then.. just leave those people and go to the place where you can be accepted... in other word.. just find your best place to live.
i know it is hard to be happy.. but there will always you (and God) near you. okay + God word is added by me because i have a faith to Him.