my friend had this problem just recently. she was reading her BF text messages and saw some chick writing to him talking about how she wants to kiss him and and take nude photos and i dont know what else(i didnt ask for details she just told me) now im not sure what she could do but what about the guy? if u were put in that situation what should you do? do you tell your Girl? or just tell the other one off? is there anyway to avoid confliction in this situation?