Curious Behavior, Help Me Out Here.
Okay I was working up in a shop and a woman brought up the fact that she never goes to Windjammer, on base club, because she will get harassed by guys. And I am sure it is true, being so few women in this area of Cuba compared to women. But if I am not in the mood to talk to anyone I just will not go someplace where I know you people are going to try to interact with me. But I noticed that with a few women complaining about being harassed. Why is it that some women will go to a place where it is expected that people are going to be trying to talk to you and come up to and complain about it. It just seems weird to me.
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Women are seen as the stereotypical "chatter boxes" no offense, to any women out there. But I don't see why random women are coming up to and starting conversations. I guess some people are just lonely and want someone to talk to, this is my best answer.
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Maybe they feel like they should be able to go anywhere and not be harassed by men. Which they should be able too to do that. I would think it would be worse in Cuba though.
Re: Curious Behavior, Help Me Out Here.
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Zev 
Maybe they feel like they should be able to go anywhere and not be harassed by men. Wish they should be able too to do that. I would think it would be worse in Cuba though.
I agree, after all that women have accomplished they still get discriminated as if they are aliens, all I have to say is those people need lives and start contributing more to society.
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Hmm~
I'll make it clear on how I see it. I am not a huge social person, because I am shy. Many people don't believe this about me, but I do scare off easy within the first three seconds I am around a guy or gal. It's simple. [Now that you get the picture of my social atmosphere]
When I don't want to talk to people I notice more people tend to flock, no matter how I look or what I am doing. People flock to people that don't want to be bothered with them.or that they find interesting. It's kind of like they want to prove themself or something. But that's just whant I've notice and from my own experiences.
When it comes to normal gatherings. I don't want to go to places where people social it up, it always tends to be the people I am with that want to go. So when I get there, and when guys get to bothering me. I tend to wish they go away. I am not there for myself I am there because a friend ask of me. I get more trills jumping off a car or roof then I'd ever get with a guy trying to talk to me. It's annoying. I mean there is my friend right there LOOKING for someone to talk to and hit up with in the following night; Oh and there's me thinking "When I'm I going to get out of here, I really want to break free."
I am not saying all women are like me, but I am pretty sure most of the women I know don't ever want to leave there comfort zone. I mean I do when I am hiking or out in the woods. But god only knows that kinda freaks you'll meet at night, in the cluB!
I wouldn't go there either if there were more men anyway. Thats S T U P I D
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This thing is normal... people would just let something out of their chest sometimes.. ^^ probably get ideas on how to ease that problem.. or release the stress... This happened to me a few times... but most of my cases were complains about their life.. usually old and drunk men.. >.<
It's kinda annoying sometimes... but I just ignore most of it.. but of course.. I don't show signs of disrespect of course.. I just did what seem fit at the time ^^
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Zev Maybe they feel like they should be able to go anywhere and not be harassed by men. Which they should be able too to do that. I would think it would be worse in Cuba though.
I agree with that. But if your not in the mood to socialize why go to a place where you know people will come up and talk to you. A club is one of those places, a bar is one. a restaurant should not be, I mean obviously sometimes people come up to you and start talking at restaurants even but not as often. It is natural if you are at a club often and you see someone new to ask what's up, are you from around here? Stuff like that. Hell some places ihave been to people go out of the way to talk to someone new.
