Well, love goes far beyond a romantic sense.
There are certain people (like my children) who, if they didn't love me... would break my heart nearly to death.
As far as romantic love is concerned... Its been a very long time since I have felt loved in that way. But.... I wouldn't say, I don't care. Because I desire to both love and be loved in a romatic sense. And sometimes, when I think of how long its been, it makes me feel like I am defective or something.
All in all though... I CAN'T care too much. As a mother I have such a big job to do. I cannot allow lack of romance, and hurt feelings over it... to take over the wheel and be a driving force. If romance happens it happens, If it never does.... Thank GOD I have many other facets in which to recieve love.