Thread: Do You Hate Yourself?

No, I don't hate myself... I get mad at myself though, when I don't accomplish what I want or when performing I know I could do better... it is harder to please me that it is to ploease anyone else. My piano professor once told me that the hardest judge that I have is myself....
I love myself... that's why I am hard on me... I want to improve... kind of like a perfectionist... however I know I can never get to perfection... I know that I can get close to it.

I've never hated myself, I've been extreamly unhappy with what has happened or what I had done. But I always try to look at it like a learning experiance and not make the same mistakes again. I am also very hard on myself and tend to beat myself up if or when things go wrong. And if I can't fix what I did then the self inflected guilt gets ten times worse. But I wouldn't trade being me for anything and I do tend to like being myself alot.

why should i hate myself? because i did something really stupid? because i messed everything up? ... no i wouldn't hate myself for anything because every time a mistake is done it is a lesson not to commit again in the future ... because when you think about it you're not the only one who makes such huge mistakes actually when you've done it and learn about it you see yourself ahead of others and realized things that others didn't till now ... a matter of life experience nothing more nothing less ...

I don't hate myself , I think I'm the greatest person according to me, I only hate others who disagree with and treat me like crap.

You can't imagine how glad I was to see that not mny people here say: "Yes, I hate myself." Because it's just stupid to hate yourself!!! No wonder people say: "If you don't love yourself, who will?" It's not just talk about how only you can fully understand yourself and appriciate all the things done. Its also like that because if you don't like yourself, you become unconfident. Unconfident means shy. Shy means people don't feel good around you. And so on and so on. That can bring problems ~.~ even such as- you aren't able to get a good job!

Well it's not like I love myslef (cheers to people who can say that... I envy you so). But I do like myself. I like how I look and I like how I act... most of the time. I sometimes find that I'm too stupid (when studies don't go so well) or too lazy (when once again I don't fight my wish to rather sit on the internet than to do my homework) or too shy (ok I feel too shy all the time ).

And how I stay not hating myself even in tha darkest time is also connected to god in some way, but not because I know he's there, but because I know that I probably am not the one to blame- I can't controll destiny- nor anything that happens nor the skin that I'm put in.

Oh, you shouldn't hate yourself ever! Even if you're having an off day! Live your life like, um, everytime you fall, get up and try again! Life's too short to be sad all the time! And you could die, like, any second, so be happy and cheer up! I've never hated myself before, even when I was having a bad day! ^^

Originally Posted by SweetCandy

I hate myself sometimes.b/c of the things that i do..I always end up hurting ppl close and dear to me-_- (i'm surpised that I still have friends.) ..Recently I had done something terrible to someon I care for so much..and I feel so bad about it..even though the person has forgiven me..it still bothers me inside cuz i'm just jerk at times..I have to pray to god to help me through this..(praying to the guy upstairs helps me)..True ,i shouldn't say ..I hate myself..b/c I feel like i'm a good kid at heart..but always it turns out bad..it's just I hate the fact that I can't stop things before it turns bad..-_-

SweetCandy, There is no hapiness in the world without pain. Some things can not be stoped, there are things I blame myself for as well as you, I also hate the fact that I can not stop things before it turns wrong, but as George from Blood plus said, Live life for today but look forward till tomorow. Dont forget to smile. Another thing I want to add to that is, we should all try to have fun with life, and dont look to the past, look to the future, if we stop now if we all make pain and suffering go, then wouldnt that happiness go away too?