Its all personal preference i say.Some things you should not have to tell your best friends about.They should be able to trust you and you trust them as well.Plus if it is to personal it should not have to be told to any one.But then again some thing are best let out rather them holding them in.
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who doesn't i mean most people dont cause they feel its irrelevant or that they dont need to know or some one else told you not to tell
Do to others as you see fit
the way i see it, personal secrets about urself.... do what u please with them. its ur own choice to let someone know more about yourself, and ur the only person how can make a secret about urself anyway... and in all honesty u will never be able to tell someone everything about urself, its just the plain and simple.
though when it comes to secrets about others.... different story entirely, but we don't need to go down that road now do we?.
its all depends on the secert, if someone else ask you keep the secert that is about your friend, would you keep it or tell not knowing where it might end up good or bad
no i don't.i mean noone knows all my secrets,not even my closest friends .
you don't have the obligation to tell your best friend all your secrets but if you trust you best friend you can tell him/her as long as you think he/she could help you,will understand and won't tell everyone else your secret.
in the end is your choice who you'll tell your secrets and who you won't tell.
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Well i'd say it depends on how personal the secret is if it's family matters that you want to keep to yourself it dosen't mean you have to tell your friend and it dosen't really matter but me... I would tell my best friend vertually anything unless of course it was family.
For me, it is fine to keep secrets from your bestfriend as long as it will not harm your present relationship. And, if your bestfriend is true, he/she would understand that there are some things that you need to keep for yourself *respect for privacy*. In addition, a person is not obliged to tell all his/her secrets to his/her bestfriend. It is ok to trust, but don't give it all...
It is true that every person changes in every time... so it's better to keep some secrets that might harm you when your relationship would come into an end.
Last edited by raja_psyche; Sep 23, 2007 at 05:48 PM.
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