do you think it's wrong to keep secrets from your best friend?

ryomakurosaki · Sep 19, 2007, 12:28 PM

well i was just wondering that...i don't tell all my secrets to my best friend because some stuff is too personal to tell to some one. but i was wondering does anyone keep secrets form their best friend?

ihauntforlust · Sep 19, 2007, 01:00 PM

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Originally Posted by ryomakurosaki

well i was just wondering that...i don't tell i my secrets to my best friend because some stuff is too personal to tell to some one. but i was wondering does anyone keep secrets form their best friend?

Well this is a hard one...no it's....simple...

If you trust your best friend really well than I think they'll keep your secret but ya....some personal secrets are personal and if you think that you should keep them to yourself than it's perfectly fine ^-^ and I'm sure if they're really your best friend they'll understand too.

And i don't tell all of my secret too...It's okay...that's what i'll say.

*divine_punishment* · Sep 19, 2007, 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by ryomakurosaki

well i was just wondering that...i don't tell i my secrets to my best friend because some stuff is too personal to tell to some one. but i was wondering does anyone keep secrets form their best friend?

Some things should be kept between you and God, or you and your parents, or you and your psychiatrist.

I have SO many secrets . . . people are always bothering me to tell them, but keeping them is what's best for me. That doesn't mean you should not tell someone . . . just be careful with whom you share things.

rksamurai · Sep 19, 2007, 01:56 PM

If this person is truely a friend that you confide in then I would have to say no it isnt good. But then again it also has to do with the situation. If it has to do with guys it may be different. This really depends but generally I would have to say no.

shippolovr1 · Sep 19, 2007, 02:40 PM

I think its horribly worng to tell friends everything because there is no guarantee that they'll be your friend tomorrow so its perfectly fair to keep secrets.

Sirhc · Sep 19, 2007, 03:33 PM

Secret is a secret. The whole reason of keeping them is for your own justification of peace of mind. Holding on to something that could completly change their thought cycle of your personality could scare them away...least in my case...well maybe. I usually try to keep barriers between worlds that are different. Nor do they even ask that much.

Though I usually don't say something because I'm lazy.

fireandice · Sep 19, 2007, 03:45 PM

Something is only a secret if you want it to be. If you just say it as normal info than nobody would be the wiser. But if you make it out to be something big then it becomes a secret. Besides some secrets are not good to keep inside you. But it is all up to each person to decide if they want to tell or not. But if it's a true friend then you would have no fear of anything and would want to share. But like I said before it is all up to each person. This is just one person's opinion.

*dark angel swordsman* · Sep 19, 2007, 06:11 PM

I keep secrets from everyone. They're things I don't feel like telling people simply because they are matters only I want to know. And quite frankly, I love keeping things from people. Perfectly fine with it. I've never told any one person everything about me.

ryomakurosaki · Sep 19, 2007, 06:17 PM

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I keep secrets from everyone. They're things I don't feel like telling people simply because they are matters only I want to know. And quite frankly, I love keeping things from people. Perfectly fine with it. I've never told any one person everything about me.

sometimes i feel like i should do that...but sometimes people need to trust each other more...this world is already curel i think some secrets should be kept with a special friend and some should never leave the shadows....

shouichishindo · Sep 19, 2007, 06:32 PM

well, i dont have very many close friends, but if i feel i can trust someone, ill tell them my innermost secrets. if not then i just treat them nice, and hope they dont suspect more, cause i hate lying

*RayMe* · Sep 20, 2007, 05:30 AM

I dont think it's wrong.. u have ur own privacy..u may spill it if u want to...^^ but it's ur own secret...

unless...the secret is somehow case sensitive and have to do something with ur best friend.. then...thats another story ^^

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rksamurai Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Within the arms of the one I love. Posts: 401 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 1,595	Re: do you think it's wrong to keep secrets from your best friend? If this person is truely a friend that you confide in then I would have to say no it isnt good. But then again it also has to do with the situation. If it has to do with guys it may be different. This really depends but generally I would have to say no. __________________ Thank you Lasura! My lover speaks; and he says, 'Arise my beloved my beautiful one and come!' -Song of Songs 2:10
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shippolovr1 Newbie Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: west sacramento Posts: 8 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 271	Re: do you think it's wrong to keep secrets from your best friend? I think its horribly worng to tell friends everything because there is no guarantee that they'll be your friend tomorrow so its perfectly fair to keep secrets. __________________ New Shadow Thanks Ihauntforlust For the Creation
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Sirhc Newbie Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: End of the Net Posts: 77 Thanks: 1 Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts Credits: 1,707	Re: do you think it's wrong to keep secrets from your best friend? Secret is a secret. The whole reason of keeping them is for your own justification of peace of mind. Holding on to something that could completly change their thought cycle of your personality could scare them away...least in my case...well maybe. I usually try to keep barriers between worlds that are different. Nor do they even ask that much. Though I usually don't say something because I'm lazy. __________________ Naruto Shippuden >> 51 \| Gundam 00 >> 24 \| FMA >> Ch. 81
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fireandice ~always by your side~ Join Date: May 2007 Location: small little hick town Posts: 516 Thanks: 19 Thanked 17 Times in 17 Posts Credits: 10,339	Re: do you think it's wrong to keep secrets from your best friend? Something is only a secret if you want it to be. If you just say it as normal info than nobody would be the wiser. But if you make it out to be something big then it becomes a secret. Besides some secrets are not good to keep inside you. But it is all up to each person to decide if they want to tell or not. But if it's a true friend then you would have no fear of anything and would want to share. But like I said before it is all up to each person. This is just one person's opinion.
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dark angel swordsman God of Destruction Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 1,839 Thanks: 1 Thanked 5 Times in 3 Posts Credits: 13,221	Re: do you think it's wrong to keep secrets from your best friend? I keep secrets from everyone. They're things I don't feel like telling people simply because they are matters only I want to know. And quite frankly, I love keeping things from people. Perfectly fine with it. I've never told any one person everything about me. __________________ If you're lucky, I may give you a tiny sliver of my godliness.
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shouichishindo Newbie Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Michigan USA Posts: 58 Thanks: 1 Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts Credits: 1,265	Re: do you think it's wrong to keep secrets from your best friend? well, i dont have very many close friends, but if i feel i can trust someone, ill tell them my innermost secrets. if not then i just treat them nice, and hope they dont suspect more, cause i hate lying __________________
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