Thread: Does the thought really count?

Sometimes it counts but it depends on how hard and the time you put into the idea that you created, I mean if you took the time and tried hard then yea but otherwise no... thats just a excuse.

i think it does count becuase there are alot of easy ways to give a gift but to make it by hand shows you care enough to take time out of your day just for them, yea most people think its cheesy but something from you go'es along way in the long run for letitng them knoew you care enough to make them something when you could have just baought a gift or even a card

Originally Posted by HolderOfTheDarkChalice

i think it does count becuase there are alot of easy ways to give a gift but to make it by hand shows you care enough to take time out of your day just for them, yea most people think its cheesy but something from you go'es along way in the long run for letitng them knoew you care enough to make them something when you could have just baought a gift or even a card

You are so correct . My parents ony give me money for my b-days, because my lil brother brthday is like a week before mine !!

:O I think thought is the Best! It shows you Care!!

While it usually does make a difference, sometimes "the thought" just isn't enough.

i know...i mean like my friend was like actually making it and i asked wen u did start making tht. he said since like an hour ago....so yea it really was kinda jus a basic hand drawn card which to be honest i would be like O_O if i was the girl reviecing it. but i guess it does in some way

the thought DOES count. In your example, the boy making the card didnt put alot of thought into it. Just because he was making the card doesnt mean that its being thoughtful. Yes, he shouldve colored it, because its thoughtful. While the poem inside was thoughtful, he shouldve made it more thoughtful by coloring it, etc.

it's not so much the thought... but the time and the emotion in whatever you're giving...

-not just talking about your friend-but generally-
a hand drawn card can be one of the sweetest and one of the worst things to give... if it's drawn from the heart (even if it's poorly done), any girl worth her breasts should love it... however... if the love isn't there, neither is the thought...

-being completely honest- a lot of my favorite gifts from Soshi have been drawings he's given me... there's one i love so much that i planning to put it on a sweatshirt... in fact, almost all the drawings he gave me i put on the door of my room so i could see them whenever i want...

^_^ but that's just me...