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    I'm pretty new here, so I thought I would start my first thread.

    Does anybody here have an ex-best friend who is now your enemy? How did it happen? Do you wish to reconcile or do you hate them now too?

    My answer: A few years ago, my female friend's new boyfriend and I started hanging out a lot. We had a lot in common, and we became great friends. Then he and my female friend broke up, and somehow in all the drama that resulted, we ended up enemies.

    We have both said a lot of really messed up things to each other since then, but, personally, I'm trying to stay civil at this point. I doubt there is a chance that we could be friends again, but I don't want to be his enemy. Life is too short for that kind of drama. I've tried apologizing to him in the past for whatever it is he's mad at me about, but he wouldn't hear it.

    So, looking forward to reading others stories. Anyone who can give some advice on reconciliation would be appreciated as well.

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    Re: Ex-Best Friends

    I really dont like my friend anymore We got into a huge fight over something that i cant remember and i would forgive him but he was still being a jerk so i cant forgive him. then i moved and am still pissed at him. I mean we got into so many fights at school that we had our own seats in the principles office.
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    Re: Ex-Best Friends

    Grumble Grumble Grumble

    Not really a debate subject thread...

    Moving to the Cyberlounge...
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    Re: Ex-Best Friends

    Oh my gosh. I do now we used to be tight but then one day she just stoped talking to me and she wouldn't tell me why and her friends dont know either. so i just said screw it and blew the whole thing off
    I tryed to see things from your point of view but i cant seem to get my head that far up my ass!
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    Re: Ex-Best Friends

    THat is a really good one i mean me and a friend got in a fight over something i cant remember and she ended up turning the whole school on me all in all i wish i could apoligize but half the school still hates me it would be too awkward.

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    Re: Ex-Best Friends

    Wow. theres a best friend thread, and an ex best friend thread... interesting
    Well, I have had good friends become my enemies... but not forever. In many cases I can not declare them true blue friends again. But maybe that concept of that kind of trust an loyalty... is as difficult to come across as a healthy, happy marriage over 5 years standing. Just not something you find all too often anymore
    Everyone is to self concerned.

    But I digress. The point I am trying to make is.... No one can get along with anyone with out radically accepting their faults. Unfortunately this may include you having to accept that a person can't not be trusted. At least not in the same fasion you mave have tusted them before a fall out. Sometimes people find it easier to just burn bridges.

    Me personally ... I tend to lean toward forgiveness. I just hope, when it is my turn to be forgiven ... that I will be as fortunate.
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    Re: Ex-Best Friends

    If they turned cheek and became an enemy, i wouldn't really consider them a best friend.

    Surely, i've had a few friends of mine move on, and eventually became so engrossed in their own interests they became annoyed with mine.

    Enemies they did not become though, as i tend to forget people who treat me with disrespect.
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    Re: Ex-Best Friends

    Quote Originally Posted by Peach_follows View Post
    Me personally ... I tend to lean toward forgiveness. I just hope, when it is my turn to be forgiven ... that I will be as fortunate.
    You and I have had some pretty bad fights and fell out for a while, but we always forgive each other, so, I'd say you are already that fortunate.

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