Mr. K

Soi!

I don't know how it works in your family; either the eldest being most love, or the youngest. Reasons: Because the parents believed they missed up on their first or their first missed up there lives.

So my question is:

Do you think it's alright for the parents or parent to love there Eldest Child most.

Now let's be unbaised here.

I am the second youngest out of five, and I am the only girl. I feel my parents have every right to love my eldest brother a little more. But I also feel special in my own nature as well.

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beast

I don't think it would be bad, I think most parents have some preference. Birth order may be thought of to be a rather narrow way of picking a favorite but all parents I think have one.

Sabishii

Yeah, I don't really think it's bad if parents have a favorite, really. I'd go by whichever one is easiest to raise, although most parents actually choose the youngest as their favorite, and spoil them; not the oldest.

Zev

Well I have a older brother and thats it. I got away will a lot more things than my brother did, because I was the baby of the family and a girl.

I think my parents loved us equally, I don't think they have a favorite. Like I usually have a couple of favorites instead of just one. I sometimes favor them for different reasons. I think thats probably how my parents feel about us kids.

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Shippo101

In my family the youngest is loved more. I'm the middle child and the only girl. My older brother isnt even thought about (he lives with us)and the youngest is spoiled beyond all compare. Like i wasnt able to do the things i do now till just last year when i was 16. My lil brother who is 13 does EVERYTHING i do now. That means curse in front of her and go downtown on a bus and everything. I believe the oldest should be loved most.

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beast

All youngest children are spoiled rotten. It comes with the territory.

_gwenibe_

What ever my brother got, I got also, we were both equal. But, I have to say in terms of special treatment, I agree with what some have said already in here, the youngest is favoured lol

I got away with a lot more things to, but I'm the oldest and also a girl lol. The youngest might get some special treatment (eg. chooses dinner, gets the last treat etc etc). But I think I can get away with way more than what he does lol Things that I did, they didn't seem to care, yet the youngest does it and they get a talking to lol not that I got away with everything ^_^;
Maybe its a girl thing lol

as for if it's right to love their eldest the most..it doesn't sound right, you'd think they'd love all their children equally..but I guess it happens

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RayMe

I was spoiled since I was an only child for quite a long time until mom started "plopping" out a few siblings... o.o After then I get less attention...

It's usually the youngest who gets all the attention and stuffs.. lol ^^ I mean... the smaller they are.. the more they tend to show themselves in the eye of parents... Who could resist the cutest among the bunch? xD

The eldest should get that recognition if they did good deeds for the family... but it would be sad for them if they did'nt and would feel left out... lol.. ^^

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