Thread: forgiving loved ones

I would move on.
If it was really nothing then they wouldn't have done it in the first place.
then it would have been nothing.
I know for me it's always hard to forgive because we are humanes and we cant read minds so theres no telling if they could do it agin and frankly if the y did do it agin then I would soo move one.

I'm sure I would forgive... my loved ones have three second chances...
That is if he's sorry, I'd forgive... if he says: "It just happened! I couldn't do anything about it." Then I'd know he wouldn't change and then it's better to let go at the same moment...
I never take back people who leave me though... Don't know why... it's like: "If you let me go, if you can't seem to understand how much I mean to you, then it's your fault..."

@ Lasura. I do agree with you jon the not taking them back. I used to do it when I was young but yes I was young. And yeah if he/she wants you back after he/ she breaks up with you then what was the point in even breaking up in the first place.

Originally Posted by P.R. Princes

@ Lasura. I do agree with you jon the not taking them back. I used to do it when I was young but yes I was young. And yeah if he/she wants you back after he/ she breaks up with you then what was the point in even breaking up in the first place.

Nice to hear someone else thinks like that
Indeed, it's just stupid to ask someone to take you back after you've left her/him... and so arrogant... it's like: "I ran away, had some freedom, thought about finding new love... didn't go out as good as I wished, so I come back!! take me!!! Till thenext time I get bored!"
Though if he/ she takes you back... that means he/ she really loves you a lot to step over his pride like that...

Forgiveness is not as easy as people think. I would ask what the heck was he thinking? Was it an accident that he could have avoided or did he just let it happen like a lamb to the slaugher lol. Depending on his answer i might forgive him but he better give a good reason ^^. And of course a kiss can always lead to other things so yep dumdumdum!

Hm and of course why would they wait a few days to say it was nothing......thats highly suspcious in my opinion.

well you see its like this my girlfriend was seen by my best mate kissing another guy, but then a few days later she tells me it was nothing but a simple friendship kiss and that she wants me back, but she cheated on me before and i forgive her so i just dont know. my heart says yes and my brain says no

Awwww...poor you well me I would move on because I finally found out my lover has found his soul mate so now that means I still need to find mine. So yeah I'm that weird or crazy. Unless if he wants to get back with me then I would stay with him unless he does it again then thats finally for me to leave.