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    Re: forgiving loved ones

    Quote Originally Posted by aeonking View Post
    well you see its like this my girlfriend was seen by my best mate kissing another guy, but then a few days later she tells me it was nothing but a simple friendship kiss and that she wants me back, but she cheated on me before and i forgive her so i just dont know. my heart says yes and my brain says no
    Uh oh she cheated in the past huh not good. A few of my friends have had that happen and usually once a cheater then always a cheater.

    Well follow your gut/brain on this one and tell her how you felt about that kiss. Honestly a friendship kiss should never be on the lips and only on the cheek. Or else a person wonders is there more going on there then just friendship. Personally I would have dumped the person for cheating in the first place and then having the gall to kiss someone way after you took them back sheesh.....talk about breaking your trust again. Of course not telling you before your friend did is bad too.

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    Re: forgiving loved ones

    awww! *hugs aeonking* I'm sorry.
    If it were me I wouldn't take them back.
    I mean they've done it before and now they do it agin.
    I dont think she learned her lesson the first time.
    but I'm sorry.

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    Re: forgiving loved ones

    Quote Originally Posted by aeonking View Post
    well you see its like this my girlfriend was seen by my best mate kissing another guy, but then a few days later she tells me it was nothing but a simple friendship kiss and that she wants me back, but she cheated on me before and i forgive her so i just dont know. my heart says yes and my brain says no
    Well... if she had cheated in the past alreasy and now again, then you can't possibly change her and this time I'd say no, don't forgive her, no matter how evil that might seem... but maybe you'll both be better off that way!

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    Re: forgiving loved ones

    Could i forgive if i was cheated on no i can't,Why should i forgive some one that has betrayed my trust ? and make it so that nothing has happened.Thats just not me cheat on me or fool around with some one else when with me you can count on me not forgiving you and never talking to again.And it has happened to me before and i still don't forgive her for doing it to me and i havent talk to her since then she tried talking to me but i blew her off,and she had the nerve to say can we still be friends ha ya right.
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    Re: forgiving loved ones

    Have you ever heard the saying "fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me" that should say it all!

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    Re: forgiving loved ones

    I do love that person, do I not? Yes, I should probably forgive him, but my trust would probably be lessened. Despite the fact that I love him, he has still cheated on me and betrayed my trust.

    mmhmm.

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    Re: forgiving loved ones

    Quote Originally Posted by aeonking View Post
    well you see its like this my girlfriend was seen by my best mate kissing another guy, but then a few days later she tells me it was nothing but a simple friendship kiss and that she wants me back, but she cheated on me before and i forgive her so i just dont know. my heart says yes and my brain says no
    If she isn't hot and great on the bed, she's not worth your time unless you can't find someone else who will truly love you. Whether the cheating was intentional or just a psychological illness, you gotta let her go. Anything else that a loved one wronged you on, that's fine.

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    Re: forgiving loved ones

    I can't speak for anyone else, but for me betrayal is the number one relationship sin. I could never forgive, because it shows that the person has no respect for me or my feelings. I'd much rather be left alone than live with the shame of "not being good enough" (and the rage that would undoubtedly follow) that someone would cheat on me mentally, physically, or otherwise.

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    If she isn't hot and great on the bed, she's not worth your time unless you can't find someone else who will truly love you.
    Not a good reason to keep someone; if she's great in bed with you, chances are she's great in bed with everyone else. STDs will follow, and both of you'd deserve them.
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