Thread: A Gentlemen's Club

Originally Posted by Pyoro-Pyoro

No that's going way to extreme. Imagine if one of Shodokan's friend was in a relationship, then where does that put his friend?? Is he not allowed to go celebrate his friend's bday?

As long as you know where the line is, and let the more sensible head make the decisions. Though I really gotta say, there are way better places to go than a strip club. Why throw money just to see a naked woman up close? Most of the time you can't even touch, so there's really no difference than pornography in HD? Sticky floors.

hummmm good point.... but still as you say there are better places where to celebrate a 21st b-day....

Originally Posted by lebasiara

hummmm good point.... but still as you say there are better places where to celebrate a 21st b-day....

Well, I'm just making that statement in terms of thinking financially. I'm not saying whether going to the strip club or a strip club is right or wrong. It depends on what you want to get out of this. If you want some action, then like Shodokan said, it's better to go to a night club. Or you could hit Vegas if you just wanna celebrate the fact that you're 21, and so forth.

I find it funny that the two guys in this thread think it's wrong because of financial reasons and the two girls think it's wrong because of moral reasons.

Originally Posted by Pyoro-Pyoro

Well, I'm just making that statement in terms of thinking financially. I'm not saying whether going to the strip club or a strip club is right or wrong. It depends on what you want to get out of this. If you want some action, then like Shodokan said, it's better to go to a night club. Or you could hit Vegas if you just wanna celebrate the fact that you're 21, and so forth.

Oh sorry, fo the misunderstanding..... brain freeze!!!!
Anyways... also it is right! there is no sense to spend that much money on a girl that you cannot even touch... there are better places to spend the money...

Las vegas? hummmm... not a place that I'd go to celebrate my 21st..... I'd rather spend money on a strip club if those are the choices... or stay at home.... I'd choose the last one then.....

O.- what are you guys talking about?

first of all, they don't FORCE the women into strip clubs, at least not many in this country. Women CHOOSE to do that to themselves becuz they believe that's what they're worth! that's a problem they have to deal with! and most strippers (and porn artists) like doing their job! it gets them money and that's why they do it! they're in it for the money and if they can't/won't try to go for something better, than that's their fault...

as for the men... i don't know... if it's for a good time, i don't really understand why it's fun since i'm not a man... but it's pathetic if they do it to loose they're "virginity" to women... and i know some guy whose done that... it is sad...

Originally Posted by The White Wolf

I'd love to go to a gay strip club, just for the hell of it. I'm sure it'd be lots of fun to see a man take off his firefighter outfit. But I wouldn't go to get laid. Just for fun.

>.< you know, i have a feeling that's why guys go to strip clubs... becuz it's fun, just becuz a guy is doing it doesn't mean you're any better for wanting to see that...

Strips clubs and other similar places can really help relieve some tension a man gets from a relationship. Just discuss it with your partner, you could even go together if she wants to (which -I agree- is not likely). Just don't be all sneaky about it. Women have a nose for betrayal and you're gonna get caught.

Originally Posted by Abu Dhabi

and most strippers (and porn artists) like doing their job!

I beg to differ, most of them certainly do not really like their profession. Especially after a while.

Originally Posted by Pyoro-Pyoro

No that's going way to extreme. Imagine if one of Shodokan's friend was in a relationship, then where does that put his friend?? Is he not allowed to go celebrate his friend's bday?

As long as you know where the line is, and let the more sensible head make the decisions.

That makes sense, and I must say I agree. I suppose there's no harm in celebrating a friend's [21st] birthday at a strip joint; as long as you know your boundaries and limits. And I think it'd be best for the "friend" to tell his gf that he's going out with the boys to see naked women. Because if he doesn't, she'll find out someway or another - as Hassun said, women just know - and all hell will break loose in that relationship.

>.< you know, i have a feeling that's why guys go to strip clubs... becuz it's fun, just becuz a guy is doing it doesn't mean you're any better for wanting to see that...

I never said women were better than men when it comes to going to a strip club to enjoy themselves. It is just that with the case of men, they sometimes go overboard and want to touch and have sex. In most cases for women, they just go for curiosity, and a few laughs.