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    Have you lost the love you had at first?

    I have heard of an odd ocurrence. People who have known each other for years grow apart and no longer have the strong bond they had at first. This had happened with both lovers and friends. But they lose what they had for each other at first. That is truly sad and truly needs to be settled quickly. This has never happened to me and I want to know what the people of AO think of this. Also I don't mean the lusting kind of love, I mean true genuine love between either friends or commited lovers.

    So here's the question: Has this ever happened to you? If so what did you do about it? Did you settle it or did you just let it run its course? If you did settle it, how did you do so? If you didn't what was the result? Positive or negative? How did the person react? How did you react? Perhaps it made the relationship stronger afterward. Please share your immense knowledge.

    Plus this also can serve as waring to those that this is happening to. Possibly this could save someone's relationship.

    Our love will go on until the end of time. I will always be yours and you will be mine.

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    Re: Have you lost the love you had at first?

    Oh god this reminds me I have to call my friends. I haven't talked to them in a while.

    Anyway distance and time doesn't change the fact that you guys are still friends. Oh and guys don't call it love. It's called having love for them. It sounds slightly less faggish. Not that theres anything wrong with that kind of thing.

    Lol I can imagine a conversation like that.

    Me: Juan I love you.

    Juan: WTF? When'd you turn into a fag.

    Me: oh my bad. I mean I have love for you.

    Juan: alright. I have love for you too.
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    Re: Have you lost the love you had at first?

    Oh god this reminds me I have to call my friends. I haven't talked to them in a while.

    Anyway distance and time doesn't change the fact that you guys are still friends. Oh and guys don't call it love. It's called having love for them. It sounds slightly less faggish. Not that theres anything wrong with that kind of thing.

    Lol I can imagine a conversation like that.

    Me: Juan I love you.

    Juan: WTF? When'd you turn into a fag.

    Me: oh my bad. I mean I have love for you.

    Juan: alright. I have love for you too.
    I understand what you're saying when it comes to love between friends, especially guys, in your case. But what about between a guy and a girl where you are expected to express love for each other? Do understand what I mean? Like the kind of sweet stuff you'd say to a lover to make them feel warm and fluffy inside ( not to be weird I just can't think of a better way to describe it). That kind of love. But I'm glad you're going to call your friend, don't let the poor dude think you don't care!
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    Our love will go on until the end of time. I will always be yours and you will be mine.

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    Re: Have you lost the love you had at first?

    This is not so much a debate debate kind of topic, so I am moving this to the Cyber Lounge Forum. Please continue the discussion there. Thanks!

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    Re: Have you lost the love you had at first?

    I believe with time things should get stronger than weaker.

    Thats just how life is.

    When your younger friendships start with a A and you have to maintain it, when you become up of age. You change it to.

    You start with a F then you become a A with time, then its all about maintaining that too. You know.

    Everything needs time, and attendtion. Friends tend to loose touch, because they seem to know everything about the person, then there's only, how to keep the friendship going. Like games, weddings, life, etc..

    Has this happen to me?

    Many times indeed, but thats because I like change. I am aware of whats happening, and when it does, I shouldn't dwell over it all at.

    Some people don't like change, so of course things are going to get weaker with time. People change. Thats just how it is.

    If you care about them, you will be yourself, and stay there friends or lover. By working with it. Stop waiting, and fix it.

    People get married than have a kid. They both change, but they believe they have changed for the better, but they forget how they fell in love, and how they should keep the love going. They just know: "Where close, and we care"

    But with Change, time, and life.

    Its only bound to happen.


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    Re: Have you lost the love you had at first?

    Yea this happened to me and I regret not asking the girl out ;/ she wasn't my best pick in elementary school and then in middle school she was hot and we had grown apart now we are just friends, yup... it sucks.

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    Re: Have you lost the love you had at first?

    It happens to most people throughout their lifes, but the thing is a lot of people just let go, they don't try to get it back. It happened to me a lot of times and everytime it did, I never did one thing to make up for it. I just feel like Sh** at the end thats all. Like for example this whole week I been feeling really sad and then I finally called my friend, who I haven't spoken to in months. So after that I started to talk to her again like the good old days. Its not something people like to do, it most likely just happens, you know.


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    Re: Have you lost the love you had at first?

    I lost the girl I used to love. Well I thought I loved her. But stuff does happen and well she is married now. But I never regret our break up. If it wasn't for that i wouldn't be the man I am today.

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