Thread: How do I proceed at making friends?

@_@... have you tried taking theyre advise and acting differently? (not that your not normal..)

Originally Posted by Shodokan

Well maybe it's because your so sensitive or you put down people without realizing it. I get that feeling from you for some reason.

Perhaps I am just one of those who takes offense to jackasses like you who ridicule everything I say without any provocation. Did you ever consider that? No, wait, that would require thinking and a conscience on your part.

Then ignore it, if it scares them that much its their problem not yours. If you change in a way you don't like then you won't be happy. Plus, theres a whole lot of people out there, you just got to wait and the right people will come to you. ^^

Originally Posted by Toecutter

Perhaps I am just one of those who takes offense to jackasses like you who ridicule everything I say without any provocation. Did you ever consider that? No, wait, that would require thinking and a conscience on your part.

I think it might have to do with the emotional problems you have. Dude we're just chatting on the internet and you're getting upset. How do you act in real life? I think that's why you're scaring people away.
See my other post. That's the best advice anyone can give you.

or maybe you could start your own little group of ppl who are...like you O.o' but anyways, you sound interesting so id love to be your friend ^.^

And how would I proceed at acting differently? I have some idea as to what the problem is (apparently it includes the following
•A naturally deep voice
•A very chisled, cold facial expression
•A lack of non-verbal expression of emotions
•A lack of ability to READ nonverbal cues

But how in the HELL am I supposed to develop nonverbal reading skills (those specifically tied to reading human emotions) if I don't get enough social interaction to work on those in the first place? It's a bloody contradiction.

you remind me of my cousin. he had like the same problems you did. but now he's learned to interact better with ppl around him. i hope it works out for you.