Here is how I deal with a loss of some sort. If its some kind of a loved one (say like a family member) I don't show any emotions at all. Everything is just bottled up inside of me. When it comes to (say like a boyfriend) I shut down completely. I end up being a hermit crab and all I want to do is eat constantly. Or another way for me to deal is listening to a LOT of hate music. But I am trying something new and that is putting everything down on a piece of paper and it some times turns into a poem and I like to see what others think about that particular poem. Like I said earlier this is how I deal with a loss.