DivineEshaShadow (Mar 09, 2011)
How would I confess..? Ummm, let me think... *pondering* Okay to be honest it all boils down the situation and the girl, nine times out of ten the girl I am interested in I know her personality some what and that is what I actually fell for, after I was attracted to her physically in some way. The last girl I confessed to was via by a letter, cause she was in a relationship, but it was on the brink and I really didn't have the time to tell her all I wanted to say face to face that day. Also she was very attractive and I knew that she had guys coming up to her all the time trying to get with her, so I thought "how can I be different, but sincere..?" So I wrote her a letter stating how I felt and that I know she has a boyfriend, but all I really want is to get to know her and if she is the slightest bit of curious on what type of man I am that she would give me a chance...lol Well it was crazy cause she wrote back and I was actually shocked, cause I didn't know how she would take it, since must I remind you that we are both out of high school and I thought that what I was doing was on that level some what...lol She said that she never had a person display such affection and didn't know a guy that would take the time to write her a love letter, so to speak... So I was in there for being myself, but yet different..
I also confessed face to face and like some of the others stated, it is all about confidence and the time of confessing, but for some strange reason I am always confessing to girls who are in a relationship or just got out of one... Out of all the girls I went with and actually loved, they was in a serious relationship or on the brink of getting out of one... I guess I just have a niche' of wanting what I can't have or it is just that all my types are taken...lol But in all reality I see how that girl loves and it makes me say that I can love her the same way, but more, cause I see or can tell that her boyfriend is taking advantage of her love and I can say the way she loves is what I really fell for... Well that is enough of me rambling... ^_^
The heart can't lie... Truth is... I love you!!!
DivineEshaShadow (Mar 09, 2011)
i wouldnt confess my love until i was sure they loved me back. if anyone here knows me, they know that im probably the happiest person alive. after a while its kinda hard not to fall for me or end up being a good friend... *trying not to brag* and really if i loved him that much, i would just wait for the right time.
"I love him that with him all deaths I could endure. Without him I live no life."
i guess i'll just write a letter, since i don't have enough guts to confess to him...
but it'll be really cool if i say it face to face!!
All the good music has already been written by people with wigs and stuff. - Frank Zappa
hmm telling someone you like them is easy its the asking out part that is killer lol
The closer you get the light the greater your darkness becomes...
First I would give a peace offering. I would first offer friendship and give the person a gift. If the person accepts the gift we would be friends first. If we become inseperable and understand each others body language and the coast is clear I would offer lunch or dinner, be extravagant with praise, light many candles, play romantic background music and tell the person what he means to me by recounting our history, great times spent together and confess my love by saying to this person how grateful I am that he is in my life and would be further blessed if he be mine. With a rose I await his response. If he says "yes" we'd kiss.. If he needs to think about it or I get a "no" then at least I know I did my best and wish him a happy life.
scratch the letter just tell them to there face. I know that might be difficult if its your 1st time but its worth it.
Why didn't I just walk away? Oh right,
because I'm an idiot.