Oh please, don't feed off each other and get a grip. This day was hard, tomorrow will be harder and yes, the past will always be hardest. That isn't the point, same with the highlights of a moment.
One smile, a laugh. They're neutral just like everything else. The moment is the only important thing because it's already gone. Just I guess, hope for it to look more like that nice picture you once saw.
Sorry if i tipped anyone's delicate sensbilities.