Letting go is hard to do for lots of people. I know I'm one of them. When someone you love, cherish and wish to spend the rest of your life with just up and walks away, it hurts. It's not easy dealing with loss, it's even harder dealing with loss and trying to let go of the person--especially when 90% of the time letting go is the last thing someone wants to do.
I've been there. I still am there... It sucks, it's hard and it's frustrating. I'm constantly hiding the way I feel, so my friends don't see my pain. Although, most can probably see it in my eyes. I know 59wayz knows, but that's because he's one of the few that I'll talk to about it. I know it's not good to bury your feelings, but I don't like people to see me upset or depressed.
Lately, I've been trying to tell myself to let go, but it's hard. Real hard. I don't even feel like the same person anymore. I haven't been for almost a year now. I dunno... I know that letting go is something that everyone will have to do at some point in time. The question is: Is that person able to?