to always listen to both sides and try to understand as much as you can
also not to do drugs- though i wish i could have learned it some other way...
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to always listen to both sides and try to understand as much as you can
also not to do drugs- though i wish i could have learned it some other way...
my lession i learn is that no matter who you are you are going to loss the trust of friends.
Actually I've learned quite a bit.
First I learned that nothing is what it seems. Who you think you love may just be the window to the person you were made for. Sometimes a person you think hates you could be the very one who loves you the most. Its just something I picked up after I entered adolescene.
Second never lose the child in yourself. I almost did a year ago. I tried to force myself to grow up to deal with the new responsibilites I had. That was so stupid of me. I'm a kid and I have the right to act that way. So I learned to let go of trying to be an adult before I actually became one. That was one of the most important things I learned.
The third one is kind of confusing. Knowing that you belong with someone and not being able too was really hard for me to understand. So I guess I had to learn patience and that things work themselves out. Nothing you can do will hurry it along so just wait for nature to take its course. That was extremely hard for me to accept but I did and now I'm happily with the man of my dreams. I hate to be cliche but "Patience is a vitue"
Nothing in the world could replace that knowledge that I've learned.
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(Laughs) I learned to be more and steady over the growing ages. Before this, I was always so fickle about situations and made wrong decisions. Even though I can say that I have not accomplish that perfect individual, I am doing my best and even if I have to let go, I will let go.
........ My valuable lessons are very misleading but I have decided to stay abide to them. <^x^>lll Baa~
Yes mom. :laugh:Quote:
Originally Posted by JustLoseIt
:D Sorry, those were stereotypical lessons from mothers. They're good, but all of them say it too much that the kids never listen.
But again, very valuable lessons.
I'm not sure about #4, though... I like coffee on certain moods. :laugh:
Number 2 is bad... we need fluids. :laugh:
And I think #3 is racist against fire-people. :laugh:
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Two more "blurts of wisdom":
1. Don't shun any kind of food just because it tastes bad. Consider your health if you actually had variety in your meals. However, never be strict on diets, it'll cause unseen stress on your body, being extremely counterproductive. Just never spoil yourself too often and you'll be healthy as strong ox.
2. Don't consider "modern solutions" as the most effective. Most old solutions of dealing with things are still as effective nowadays, if not MORE effective. "Modern solution" is just easier. Lazier.
No no no, I knew that I would get a response off my post ^_^ and I kind of knew you would take the job. Haha Krazzy as it seems.Quote:
Originally Posted by Soshi Kitai
Anyway, I don't take it back of coarse, but yes I know that I seem as if I am a "Fun sucker" when I list those things. Kind of like a mother seems to do {{At times}} I love you mom..... xD
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Originally Posted by kedar
Well my good friend Kedar has dragged me into this (blame him, lol). To me, one of the first big life lessons came in 6th grade. The setting was me, a being a very naive and “good” kid new to middle school were I was introduced to many not so good influences. And one of those “bad” kids (as most adults would see it). He and I were just leaving gym class and for what ever reason we were talking about curfews.
After he told me that he could stay out as long as he wanted in a tone of voice I didn’t really focus on. I started complaining to this friend of mine that my 11:00 O’clock pm curfew was just way too “harsh” and “strict”. That if I was to be out past 11 then I had to gasp! call them and let them know where I was and when I would be home. SOOOOO not cool to a noob teenager. His reply is the action that brought this first major life lesson. It was that he “wished” his parents cared enough about him to “know” where he was at. He told me he felt he could commit suicide and his parents not care or even notice. Doing so in the most broken voice and expression I had ever seen.
My curfew didn’t ever seem strict anymore and I gained a new out look on life.
Silly I know, but this action taught me to be appreciative of the things, family and friends that I had. It showed me that there were very different out looks on the things in my life and thus since then I have tried to be very objective in my views and consider more then what I am currently seeing or feeling. It also showed me that there are people all around us that on the surface look to be doing great and have things we may envy at the time. But deeper then that they are lonely, hurting and broken, like this kid who so many teachers thought was such a rotten apple, he just wanted someone to care. Something that I took for granted.
...always be cautious at times.. @.@ and never get distracted with little things too much... @.@