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id rather have a long term relationship because then you get to know someone way better and instead of just having one chick every week or something and not getting to know what you like about them and what they like about you, you can have a long relationship where you guys share everything together.
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ya i would have to say i like long term relationships you get to know alot more about people if you do that...if you don't stay togther and give each other a chance then you'll never now who your true love will be... Im mean i have been in a relationship for 3 years....:D:
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I would have to say long term relationship, becuse I get to much attach to that person. I really wouldn't want to hurt that person that I am in a relationship with. That is just my thought.
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I would go long term cause I kinda did the other and ended up on the bad end of things. But I wanted long term but didn't get it so....... in the end one person will get hurt. It's not worth it, atleast for me it wasn't.
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I love to have long-term relationships....but they always go wrong. I always find something that makes me angry all the time, then I get distant. I start to question if I love them, then I convince myself I don't. Then they get pissed and break up with me, lather, rinse, repeat. xD (Long term...like one month?)
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honestly i don't know what i want.. hell i never have..
but the thing is i'm a person that believes in try before u buy. in this case i gotta try a long term relationship (the hard part)
or
do the swinging scene. but for now i decided to try the hardest one so far. long term relationships..... and it certainly has its pros and cons, definately cons. but hey its something that i love.
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^_^ i have a long term relationship! three years and going! kiii- yah biotch!
^O^ sorry! i get excited with things like this... Soshi and i have been together for more than three years...
^-^ and i wouldn't trade it for the world... it's really great... he always makes me laugh...
*^-^* he's dancing for me now... i love him... very much...
^_^ i would highly suggest a long term relationship... so you can fart in front of each other... and all you do is giggle like 6-year-olds... yeah... you don't know how fun that is ^-^!!!
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Me personally, I would go with long term relationships, they offer so much more then a consistent string of One night stands.
A good fictional example is Anthony Dinozo on NCIS. At the start of the series, he was a "Swinger" by the definition of this thread, and by the end of third season, he meets a nice Doctor lady, he falls in love with her, they start looking at houses together, he meets her mom, and then he meets her dad...
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Who turns out to be an international weapons dealer who he's been hunting for 2 seasons.
...And he seems happier for it!
And for those 2 people who voted "Both", you can't have your cake and eat it too. Its either one or the other folks... unless both of you are into that kind of thing, then all the more power to ya.