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i would rather be in a long term relationship cause i would be attached to the person im with and i couldn't see my self cheating cause i think its one of the most disrespectfully thing a person can do even if you hate the person its better to leave then sleep around not sleep around and stay with them...OK i went off topic a little but yea relationship for me
hmm... i think it depends on what kind of relationships you get into...like me, i've only had like 2 bf's that lasted like a week each... i like being single because i know all relationships must end and its hard on the person that isn't ready to let go.... but i also understand jelousy and what not... so after that huge thing i'm still confused and i'm unsure, sorry
i agree with the latter part there of what you said, because today the girl who i thought was my special someone completely dumped me on the side of the curb...and she was kinda malicous about it too, hadn't talked to her in 2 or 3 months, i didn't do a thing to her. but yeah, i was one of those people that were/are afraid to let go...i dunno if i'll be able to find someone else, given my shy personality...oi:(:Quote:
Originally Posted by yumyum92
Well I'm in a long term relationship right now. And I say it is much better than being a swinger. It's so nice to have someone always there for you and looking out for you. While as a swinger you make almost no connection at all which seems pointless to me.
i choose relationship.. everybody needs someone right?
i do! i don't wanna be alone ehehe..
long term relationship helps you to know your self
and each other better. if you are a swinger,
you will not know who you really want and what you really want..
stick to one, its better to have one than many..
because if you have lots of relationship outside,
means you will get hurt many times too! hehe
you get me guys?
I'm not lookin' for one, but if I haveta choose, then I choose a long term relationship. I wanna b close ta someone, ta have not jus' a lover; but a best friend. Relationships make u sooo much closer ta the one u wanna b wit. It goes well beyond sex to a totally different plane.:cool3:
ok i would and only could have a long term relationship i could co casual ( it means u are kinda with them but can go around goin with other girls/boys)
i dont see the pont it has no meaning if he/she dosnt like to be with u with out all that then whats the pont its just like cheating on them without the gilt..
but i cant do that so long term relationships are for me i cant go around like that
id reather be in a relationship then be a single person hitting on other chiks all day i wanna find some close to my personality and likes some stuff i do