I used to fall in love a lot, it wouldn't even matter if i really liked the guy or not, i just wanted someone to love me or at least say they did. What all that did was get me a lot of heartbreak. As of now, I have been going out with this one guy for a while now and think he is the one, I really like him and I am pretty sure I love him. I want him to be happy and I dont want to hurt him. He says he loves me so i believe him, not that i would ever doubt him but at the beginning of our relationship, it was a little bit rocky. We were both cheating on each other and trying to hide it from the other until his other girlfriend dumped him and i could tell something was wrong and he had to tell me, the other guy i was going out with was nothing like the guy im going out with now, he was rude, in considerate, etc.
My definition of love is:
a- a sense of completion, of complete joy with another person or thing
b- a word mistakenly used for lust
That is my view on love and relationships, many people dont believe in love but without love where would we be?