Thread: Is love worth the pain

I know it may seem harsh for me to say this but I would say just forget her. I know how it feels to be used just so that they can have somone to tell everthring. And well I stoped talking this person. The a year later we became friends again i though she changed but she didn't We used to be best firneds but after a year of not talking it was aprent that we were moer different than ever. so now i am not talkiner to her again. She has so many problems in her life and they are all her fault.

I see that Tori is the same way she only wants somone wants going on so that she has someone to lean on. but only when things are bad never good. She is only using you. She dosnt' care as you said. So i say forget her and when she really needs you but your not there for her she will see what she had.
but that is just me.

I agree with P.R..... Even though you may love her, she seems to have the habit of getting into problems that are her fault- so, if it is her fault, then you should try to move on and find someone that makes better choices and is more loyal, et cetera, et cetera..
She doesn't sound like a very nice person to be with.

Oh my...this is somewhat of a feeling i had from Tori's perspective about a guy..but minus throughout the hurt & emotions..i'm 24 & gone through so much when it comes to relationship & pain.
but without hurt & emotion she's put you through, if i was her, I'd get my senses down & make things better. Least thats what i did to my best friend, i noticed that the things i was doing was getting complicating for him & I, so i stopped & said I'm sorry & stopped drifting away from the world that cared...but enough of me (lol) before i go into my own boring story.

Depression can lead to this if you allow it, hopefully you realise that you're capable to making great friendship & use what you have gain to the next special person, that'll treat you far better than Tori >.<

Most definitely if someone is wasting your emotion & heart that you put through...isn't worth having around, cause there's no point..you can't change a person when they don't grow or realize when they should make things better. Besides you deserve a wonderful person, Xelhes! ^__^ Good luck.

Hey guys....ive heard this all before that i should just let her go but see its not so simple i know i have to let her go. im fully aware its just hard to do. I understnad that i have to. Its almost like this....You have held dear to something for so long and once you get hurt by it knowing fully well that you should let it go...you dont want to. I have to move on but. its not fair that im always the one that gets hurt

=_= i'll call that girl "bitch" cuz she sounds like "Mei", my Darling's ex girlfriend...


anyways, sorry guy, no one is going to say to stick with her to try and work it out. the harsh reality is she can find a mulitude of guys to bend to her will, and you're just a name on the list. however, you don't really want to accept that (but really, who would?) so you're just waiting and waiting until she changes her mind...

but sadly, that's NOT GOING TO HAPPEN.

THAT'S NOT GOING TO HAPPEN.

THAT'S NOT GOING TO HAPPEN.

THAT'S NOT GOING TO HAPPEN.


it's not going to get through to you, which is why i repeated it... you can wait for her all you want, but you're wasting time... time you could be using to find someone who will drop what they're doing FOR YOU. who will always be watching out FOR YOU. who will be there FOR YOU.

so, all in all, kick that bitch to the curb or you'll be going down with her...


p.s: sorry if i was harsh... she really does sound like my Honey's ex... don't take it personally, take it seriously! (that's a quote from a reality show!)

Eh, love is woth the pain, worth the pain you may cause to another and worth the pain you have to endure, I should know that... *sigh*

But Xelhes, I must say it really roughly and it might seem evil, but I' m just saying what I think- the love to that girl IS NOT WORTH IT... It's not worth to fight for something that doesn't appriciate you, the things you do... And come on! She doesn't even care about you. I say she's a b***h... Sorry, but that's how I feel... she didn't even care! How could she... That is just wicked!

Of course it's hard to let go, but you just try, it's not that hard, she really treats you bad... very, very bad. No nice girl would ever do it. No nice girl would ever cheat too. She just is unsure I tihnk and just needs guys around her.

Eh, don't worry.. you'll be fine, I'm sure, be strong ^^

Ok, Time for the Sithis Note. First off, on this computer, well the "Return" key doesn't overly work, so I apologize if this is all one big paragraph.




Anywho, Pain is the ultamite teacher. And by learning we become stronger and wise. And with that comes power, and with power it removes limitations, and through that we gain superiority. And we as humans, strive for power.

Sure, it may cause an extreme amount of pain (Trust me, I would know...I'm actually debating on giving love up). Yet through that pain we learn what NOT to do...prehaps I should take my own advice and see if it actually works.