Really, the names help gives away male or female, so does their view on certain subjects, such a lust. I don't know, I just guess and are sometimes right. Mainly if they seem intelligent I assume they're woman...hehe. Yeah not easy for me to answer, so many things that I'm oblivious to.
Anywho on the "Internet" I stay exactly the same as I am in "Real Life". I see no reason to change who I am, and hide behind words and a screen, I am who I am, and I go where I go. Also for the attraction to getting to know another, that mainly goes to comparison. If they share an ideal like me, I'll want to get to know them, if they seem interesting with what they say I guess it's worth the time to ge tto know them. And there are no
cool people to me. Just people.