Yes, being in a relationship does show the other person that you are willing to work things out because you love them. Which is why I sometimes think marriage makes it all the more complicated. Why must you have to commit in such a big way just to show someone else that you love them that much? I mean, when it comes to love there can be so many doubts. Which is why marriage brings up many questions and so much uncertainty.
I think marriage is a "go-go" if you support each other financially and emotionally. As marriage is not just about love really. You need finance to help you with things are work out things together as a whole.
well like every young girl wants when there younger is to have a big white wedding ( well me cos im spoild and cos of disney) but i think if u love that person dear enof you should get married but thats my openuon ( p.s i sooo can spell)
Should marriage be a holy union that unites those who love each other, yes. Is it always that case, no. Don't let what other people do sway your judgement on the matter. When it comes down to it, it's your decision. Hopefully, if you ever want to marry, it will be for love instead of selfish reasons or the fact that it is convenient at the time, those are the marriages that don't last that long.
I guess I never looked at it that way deo-chan. As marriage being something individually. I've always generalized the topic. But I never realized that it's what you want, you do... y'know? If two people really love each other, than of course they should get married. But I guess what sways my opinion on that, is the fact that sometimes two people do love each other... and end up getting a divorce anyway. And that's sad.