Thread: men's pain (for men only, seriously)

Well I totaly quit falling inlove and finding a mate .
I tired of being lied to all this B.S. I just going to be single for the rest of life.
I'm 50 and I think my girl friend days is over with ..
There is nothing out there for me at all and I count my blessings , I don't to worry about dating and no child support to pay and no woman to nag at me.
I'm now a free man and not tied down. So it says in Bible go forth and be fruitful not so for some, if there no one out there for you don't bother looking.I just fed up with the all love thing , it just a let down.

Originally Posted by Manga artist

Well I totaly quit falling inlove and finding a mate .
I tired of being lied to all this B.S. I just going to be single for the rest of life.
I'm 50 and I think my girl friend days is over with ..
There is nothing out there for me at all and I count my blessings , I don't to worry about dating and no child support to pay and no woman to nag at me.
I'm now a free man and not tied down. So it says in Bible go forth and be fruitful not so for some, if there no one out there for you don't bother looking.I just fed up with the all love thing , it just a let down.

sir, first of all i would like to pay my respect for your statement. it takes courage to talk subjects like this that are truthful. and second, i have to agree with you as well...there are things in life that we have to accept. again, sir i thank you for your stories. i hope others will to...it's not just love life here ya know. it's generally about individual's pain that you want to end it but telling it.

Love is just bunch crap and lies!
besides there is a lot queers out in real world
Women just want to forget you these days and go involved with jocks and studs who think thier so fricken macho .
just goes to show that women are so blinded by thier own knowage.Why bother falling in love when there is too much competion.

I'm constantly haunted by all of my past failures and mistakes. So much that it keeps me from reaching my true potential sometimes. I don't mean little mistakes like, "Oh crap, I messed up while inking that drawing." More like, "Damn, why didn't I listen to her? Now she's with someone else," or something along the lines of epic failure. My mess-ups with past relationships, my mistakes/bad choices made in my younger years, my horrible behavior in school and with family, etc.

All those things combined end up being the reasons I beat myself up a lot and why I suck at talking to women. Although, I never really was good at talking to women (when it comes to trying to be more than friends). I kinda just fell in to relationships and wondered how I got there, LOL. *not complaining one bit*

I've been trying to get better at the idea of not beating myself up and actually doing things to change my future, rather than be afraid of my past so, I've been trying to be more pro-active in the present.

All men don't like failures, who does? The best way is to not let mistakes take over your life learn from them and in your case it sounds like you have.

Yea it hurts to remember the mistakes but that's only because you keep remembering it; I think its sometimes better to know where you went wrong, why, how, and then to keep that in mind so next time a mistake won't happen again. After all this is the only way we can better ourselves is to make mistakes so we know the truth.

Time heals everything eventually and all things good come to those who do the same in return.