OK here is my problem in have diabetic problems
and have to take this pill some times for medical reason
and my girl friend isn't happy with it because she says
it takes away from her getting me the same way , i have tried
to explain that it cant be helped and that i need it.
but she just want listen so my questions is this
does using Viagra really make women feel like
there not making you happy or do you think
the pill really does help , myself i have to say
it helps a lot but she isn't happy that i have to use it
to get myself that way for her when she think she
should be the only one able to do that. i really cant
explain it with out getting crude but I'm sure you know what
i mean.
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I think it's ok for a guy to use Viagra if he needs it,but if he's just using it cause he wants to then I say no cause if a guy can get it up on his own then there's not need to take it. As for the girlfriend if she's not happy with him taking it eventhough it seems he does need it, then she can either deal with it or leave and find someone else. I hope you weren't refering to me.
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I think it's a little unfair of her to take it personal...In your situation. Maybe if you were using it for "fun" or rather recriation (IE to keep it up longer or something) then I could understand her point. But since your simply trying to make it POSSIBLE for you to share that piece of you with her, I think it's a beautiful tihng. You could just ignore that whole sector of the relationship like so many other men with similar issues and it could become a real relationship problem. Maybe...explaining that you couldn't do it, without the pill, would ease things, but it seems to me you already have.
What's a viagra?
Whatever it may be, I am sensing (forum-) inappropriate vibes projecting off of this thread, so I am going to close this ~! But if any member of the staff feels otherwise, please re-open it.
+Closing+
Personally I see no issue with the pill irregardless of the reason for taking it. It is meant for you to be able to make the most out of having relations with your significant other. When done properly (meaning context of occurrence) it is a beautiful and worthwhile experience for both parties and should be treated as such without concern for the schematics of how the arousal happened.
While I understand her jadedness over you needing it to take it for the arousal to occur (it makes her feel like she isn’t good enough, she feels inferior even though you have a legit medical reason for it not happening) she needs to understand that you physically can’t. Not just towards her but towards anyone. However rather then not be with her in that context your love, attraction and thus “desire” for her IS the reason you use said pill. So you can meet all of her needs and share that most beautiful act two people can physically share…with HER.
If she can’t respect that then she isn’t going to get off her ego trip and you should consider either not having that aspect of your relationship with her…or moving on.
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