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    My lil girl problem

    i posted this on another forum but i wanted to ur opinion on my situation:

    so there is a girl i known for 13+ years and i kinda started liking her 5 years ago, when i finally became confident and told her i liked her we became a bit closer then normal.
    when i asked her out and she said no, i was like ok. until her friend told me she did'nt date timorese people, that shot me down hard. When i spoke to her 2 days later she told me she dose'nt date asians overall and it had nothing to do with me and asked if were still 'cool' i didnt answer.
    So i kinda become upset with her and i did'nt think i could be her friend anymore.
    It hurts that it's all bout where your from what nation you have to be for her to go out with you.
    and the dumb thing is she is asian, so she is against going out with her own ppl.
    This just completly pissed me off.
    well until i spoke to her a week later and asked her why she dose'nt go out with asians, she told me she dose'nt know why and said she feels nothing with asians.

    so now i wanna know is how do you get over someone and what is ur opinion on my situation?

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    Re: My lil girl problem

    Ahh, it hurts because you've known and liked her for a pretty long time.

    I think you can still talk to her, though. Just don't let it get to you, well ... because she has a messed up reasoning. So no, I don't see any reason for you to be bothered by her.

    And don't listen to "there's pleanty of fish in the sea"; that's hella cliched.

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    Re: My lil girl problem

    Quote Originally Posted by silent_man View Post
    i posted this on another forum but i wanted to ur opinion on my situation:

    so there is a girl i known for 13+ years and i kinda started liking her 5 years ago, when i finally became confident and told her i liked her we became a bit closer then normal.
    when i asked her out and she said no, i was like ok. until her friend told me she did'nt date timorese people, that shot me down hard. When i spoke to her 2 days later she told me she dose'nt date asians overall and it had nothing to do with me and asked if were still 'cool' i didnt answer.
    So i kinda become upset with her and i did'nt think i could be her friend anymore.
    It hurts that it's all bout where your from what nation you have to be for her to go out with you.
    and the dumb thing is she is asian, so she is against going out with her own ppl.
    This just completly pissed me off.
    well until i spoke to her a week later and asked her why she dose'nt go out with asians, she told me she dose'nt know why and said she feels nothing with asians.

    so now i wanna know is how do you get over someone and what is ur opinion on my situation?
    Just let it go and try to be friends if you value her frienship. If not just take your leave and fish the vast sea which is full of fish.

    Quote Originally Posted by Rave_Grip View Post

    And don't listen to "there's pleanty of fish in the sea"; that's hella cliched.
    That is something you would say, lol kiddie.

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    Re: My lil girl problem

    Its best to get off your chest how you felt about her. Give yourself some time to grieve. Then find something to take your mind off of her. Read a book. Write a poem. Have some fun. You'll forget about her in no time. But don't think you can still be friends afterward. The human heart doesn't work like that.

    Our love will go on until the end of time. I will always be yours and you will be mine.

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    Re: My lil girl problem

    well just listen to the blues and move on. dont get pissed at her openly and hopefully you guys continue ur friendship if ot..it wasnt meant to be.(for the blues i reccomend 'still got the blues'by gary moore)

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    Re: My lil girl problem

    Grumble Grumble Grumble

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