The Offical AO Love Thread

[Soshi Kitai]

Originally Posted by ketaro

I think that love can become a sickness that can ultimately kill you or drive you crazy, thus killing others. I personally, think that we all should be aware of loves dark side, not only its good side. Loves dark side is the most intriguing sides i find very interesting, some of its examples are; jealousy, envy, lust, suicidal and killing emotions.

Problem with that is, you never end up truly loving because of it.

I should know, I spent most of the first part of Abu and I's relationship looking at the "what can go wrong because of this"... and other parts of the dark side of love...

I stayed strong through it and protected her harder because of it.
However, it never gave her space to become who she was going to be with me.
More worried about growing up wrong that she didn't know what was right to grow into.

Trust and Understanding. Trust and Understanding gets rid of those dark sides. Once you truly trust and understand the other, you will never fear the dark sides.

[!Mini Dev]

Love is a great growing friendship for a partner but then that freindship extends to care aswel as protection and loyality plus trust

[Lotski]

chance or choice?

-when you meet the right person to love
at the right place, at the right time,
that's a chance right?

-when you meet someone
you are attracted to,
that's a chance too..

-being caught that there are many people
out there who are more attractive, smarter, richer
than your mate & yet u decide to love ur mate
just the same,
that's a choice...

i think fate brings u together but its still up to you
to mae it happen. we may meet someone by chance
but loving & staying with that someone
is still a choice.. am i right peeps?

[Forcefly]

Originally Posted by Lotski

chance or choice?

-when you meet the right person to love
at the right place, at the right time,
that's a chance right?

-when you meet someone
you are attracted to,
that's a chance too..

-being caught that there are many people
out there who are more attractive, smarter, richer
than your mate & yet u decide to love ur mate
just the same,
that's a choice...

i think fate brings u together but its still up to you
to mae it happen. we may meet someone by chance
but loving & staying with that someone
is still a choice.. am i right peeps?

I think that you are right it is a choice to stay with that person but at the same time it is also a choice to fall in love or not isn't it? We choose who we love don't we... but I must admit that once in a while I guess we have no choice in wether or not we fall in love though it would be nice if we did. I'm not sure if it's fate that brings people together in the end it is just people doing what we do right? Choice and Chance I guess I really can't say what is what I'm sorry...

[Onipup8]

For me, I'd say it used to be betrayal love, but now, I'm freeee!!

[nightcrawler1]

I think ur rite, there's all kinds of love, unconditional love, and conditional love

[Avatar theif#1]

to me love is the amount of crap you can carry from "your lover"

[iluvmyloser]

ppl i need help and i need to know what do u ppl look for in girls/guys.i am a girl so in a guy i look at his face for some reason but mostly his eyes.theres something about the eyes i have in contact with...hmm....nope dont know why ...so what do you all look for in a guy plz pm me for anything u want to talk about and vote it !!♥♥♥