The Offical AO Love Thread

[Zev]

I can't say I have never strung along a few guys at once, I just didn't know which one to choose. You should always tell them that you seeing/dating other people as well, they will either step up their game or stop talking to you. Honestly is the best policy, and that way people don't get their feelings hurt as much. lol But shame on you if you were in a committed relationship and then starting seeing another girl without breaking up with the first one, thats horrible just make a decision already!

[SamuraiDude128]

Yeah, I'm always honest with people, if it backfires I just go, "Oh well... that's how I feel..."

[forgottenshadow]

I guess I'm in the category of " not yet love". After being in a relationship with someone who is as sticky as toffee apple, I've decided to stay friends with guys than date them, even if I have a few crushes =.=. I'm a hard person to please and like my solitude from time to time, so staying single is the best remedy for me. I like to keep things as simple as they are and have fun, but why do some make it hard? @_@

[receiverofhell]

This is my finished part of my post yesterday...
First of all I wanted to tell you guys that I'm having serious problem on my love life...
and that's it..
Samurai your right though...
DAMN! Can I get on with this issue..
Don't think badly of me cause its not my own fault cause it her's!(the second one)
She forced me into it and now I breaked her but I felt a strange ambiance in myself and I did what I must do!.<<
Like I chased her to no end and after that she reconciled with me though..
I was confused state at that time...
Can any advice me about this thing?
Guess I'm just lonely at that time?

[wiccachick5]

Well, i have been in love, and had my heart broke, but i still love this girl, we dated for 1 year, then she broke up with me, this was 3 years ago, and i still love her, and cannot get over her, i feel like a stalker, but love is a funny thing, the dictionary defines love as

1. a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.
2. a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.

but then again everyone has a different view on love.... sry i am babbling on, *shuts up*

[Zev]

You know ReceiverofHell's post made me think of one of my ex-boyfriends, because he did this really thoughtful thing that surprised me. He made this forum for just the two of us, everyone else was not able to join. Which we would post each other messages when we were apart, it was cute. So if you really want to show someone you care, do something totally out of the blue like that.

[receiverofhell]

Thanks Zev,I could really count on your advices...
Well I have really made a decision that's bugging me for a while now....
I have decided it..and i'll do it..
I didn't fear anything now..

[bluewolf]

Honestly Receiverofhell if this girl really means something to you than defiantly do something to show you care. I'm sure you know what she's into. Surprise her just so she knows that you care. If you decide that you want more than one girlfriend than you should talk to you current girlfriend/girlfriends and possibly future girlfriend/girlfriends because it isn't fair to cheat on them. Many couples have open relationships and it works for them.

SamuraiDude128 my best advice for you is to talk to your crush. Let him know how you feel. If he's a true friend than even if he doesn't like you back (which I hope he does) he'll still be your friend. I realize right now you like him but if it wasn't meant to be than life will move on and so will you.