Online relationship 2!!

*RayMe* · Apr 30, 2008, 02:03 AM

There was a thread about this a few months ago ehehe

but... this one focus more on trust and something i thought of...

So.. How far would you trust another companion you know through net? A person you never saw before, a person you knew for some time... It can be a friend or more than that..

you make your own classification... ^^

Mmm.. Ever got bored when you end up talking about the same thing over and over again to different person? ASL , what they been up to, their life...

How open are you with your online companions / friends (or your on classification as i've said) ?

How strong can an online relationship be for you? Do you for some reason personally control your gap of trust and feelings? I know that every of us here knows that online relationship is not 100% secure... for the other party may not even care for us and ect ect... i have been through some experiences before so yes i know ^^ maybe you can tell a bit about your own experience... and tell us how you feel and how or what you did to avoid the same from happening.. or you think that it can happen again for many reasons...

^^

aceman67 · Apr 30, 2008, 02:07 AM

Not worth the time and effort unless you actually meet at the end of the relationship and take it into the real life phase.

The internet is a great way to meet people. Both my brothers met their fiance's online.

Unless you're serious and take it to the next level, so to speak, don't waste your time.

That, and its potentially dangerous.

*RayMe* · Apr 30, 2008, 03:47 AM

Hmm it seems that acey mention more over the very very close type of relationship... yes! Lovers!

I agree with him ^^ If it is not to be taken seriously.. forget about it... Others will get hurt if you were not serious.. and that means your a bad person! :/ very bad

(gee.. i sound like a lil girl.. o.O)

Well... I think this is the same when it comes to friends too.. but its not necessary that you go all the way to meet them tho... would be cool to meet online friends

Hmm i might one day meet a few of my friends here and a certain someone (certainly wanna meet her!).. I hope it'll happen one day and soon!

BrokenLover101 · Apr 30, 2008, 04:48 AM

I could trust them with my life.. It may sound stupid or whatever but i believe that you can find people out there that you can trust with your life even thought you've never seen them in real life. And if we're going beyond a friendship level then trust is the basic foundation of any relationship. If you can't trust the one you love, who can you trust? Even if the person is online or someone over the phone that you met through a friend of yours. Just because you havent met them doesn't mean you can't trust them.

Well that's typical. You tend to have the same conversations with different people because you, usually, get different answers. Whether your bored or not depends (usually) on whether you care about the person..

I'm as open as im willing to be at that particular moment. One of my friends that i met over the phone through another one of my friends knows all about me and my life. I've never met him but I know that i could tell hiim anything and he wouldn't judge me. I once had a relationship with a guy (my last relationship actually) who i loved very much but I couldn't tell him much becuase I wasn't comfortable telling him certain things about my life. I don't know why i felt that way but I did.

How strong can an online relationship be for you? Do you for some reason personally control your gap of trust and feelings? I know that every of us here knows that online relationship is not 100% secure... for the other party may not even care for us and ect ect... i have been through some experiences before so yes i know ^^ maybe you can tell a bit about your own experience... and tell us how you feel and how or what you did to avoid the same from happening.. or you think that it can happen again for many reasons...

hmm.. Which one would you perfer me to talk about?

Aleister Sithis · Apr 30, 2008, 05:05 AM

Well when I get asked asl, I always answer: -5/not sure/your closet

However, if it's jus friends, I'm actually moderatly open. My friend Brianne is an online freindship and I talk to her about everything. x.X I can actually trust her, of course I could be wrong but eh, oh well. What's life without risks?

As for the further relationship, well when Jenn and I broke up (Which we had to ALL because she moved to Mass. and I live in michigan) we tried it via online...just didn't work out or feel the same. So yeah, we do keep in contact and kinda talk about feelings we still hav, however it just sucks now...well yeah it's obvious why.

fireandice · Apr 30, 2008, 05:23 AM

Online relationships ... lol ... wow where to start... I would say that if it's on a friend level only you would have the best results in the world. But if you try and take it beyond that then you are in for a huge uphill battle. Now, I'm not saying that some don't work out but those that do work all have one thing in common. You have to physically meet the person that you want the relationship with, otherwise is really isn't real. On the net you can hide things, including your true self. While most people don't do that there is always the chance that they may. Plus things happen in a persons life when they need someone to comfort them and a screen and key board just isn't the same as real physical contact. Now I know I'm probably going to get yelled at for this post .. but in all reality, all of you know, that to really make things work you have to meet and spend time with the person that you wish to be with to make it .....

PhoenixSara · Apr 30, 2008, 06:51 AM

well you do have to get to kow the person really well and if you still have not seen or met the person you might want to keep personal details to your self. till you know 110% in your heart that you can trust the person and you may want to have a friend with you meet this person from online ( there have been reported cases of date rape) just to be on the safe side.

animekidcam · Apr 30, 2008, 07:30 AM

i wouldnt mind. if you get to know some one it should matter how they look
to me as long as they are not on the heavy side. you could be an ugly female still wouldnt matter to me because im happy jus to be with some one

Descended From Darkness · May 01, 2008, 11:34 AM

We were talking about it in Sociology. XP.

Anyways I'm in currently in an online relationship and I trust my bf. We've been friends for four years. We met on a forum and we became fast friends. There were times when our friendship was shaky and he has apologized for being a total jerk towards me. We have taken things to the next level so to speak. We talk on the phone...well more like I leave him a message and yell at him for not picking up. Its rare when he does pick up but its nice to hear his voice. We are going to somehow end up meeting each other in the near future...But I think that if you someone for long enough then a relationship will work. That same can be said for real life relationships.

PhoenixSara · May 01, 2008, 01:15 PM

if this works for you other people's opinion shouldn't really mind. as long as you know and feel you are safe. don't go on an online relationship just to have a relationship so to speak. just make sure you get to know the person.

ZenAden · May 01, 2008, 07:57 PM

Yeah, look it just doesnt work in the long run. Online relationships, oh boy, yeah look they just dont work. Its depending on the age of course... I can imagine highschool students doing that sort of thing but once you start working and meeting people, you tend to lose interest in that sort of thing. In my opinion, it only really works when the two people really put in some effort into meeting in person. Other than that, meh it just doesnt work. Its cute for little awhile but it just ends up in the gutter.

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RayMe 1 )3^^( )N Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Somewhere i would love to leave right now for somewhere better... Posts: 3,589 Thanks: 54 Thanked 26 Times in 23 Posts Credits: 58,560	Re: Online relationship 2!! Hmm it seems that acey mention more over the very very close type of relationship... yes! Lovers! I agree with him ^^ If it is not to be taken seriously.. forget about it... Others will get hurt if you were not serious.. and that means your a bad person! :/ very bad (gee.. i sound like a lil girl.. o.O) Well... I think this is the same when it comes to friends too.. but its not necessary that you go all the way to meet them tho... would be cool to meet online friends Hmm i might one day meet a few of my friends here and a certain someone (certainly wanna meet her!).. I hope it'll happen one day and soon! __________________ Legion Ketsueki Lives on~!! The best ever Lasura~! >>>myspace<<<
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BrokenLover101 Diamond in the Rough Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Atchison.. Posts: 223 Thanks: 36 Thanked 21 Times in 20 Posts Credits: 10,542	Re: Online relationship 2!! I could trust them with my life.. It may sound stupid or whatever but i believe that you can find people out there that you can trust with your life even thought you've never seen them in real life. And if we're going beyond a friendship level then trust is the basic foundation of any relationship. If you can't trust the one you love, who can you trust? Even if the person is online or someone over the phone that you met through a friend of yours. Just because you havent met them doesn't mean you can't trust them. Well that's typical. You tend to have the same conversations with different people because you, usually, get different answers. Whether your bored or not depends (usually) on whether you care about the person.. I'm as open as im willing to be at that particular moment. One of my friends that i met over the phone through another one of my friends knows all about me and my life. I've never met him but I know that i could tell hiim anything and he wouldn't judge me. I once had a relationship with a guy (my last relationship actually) who i loved very much but I couldn't tell him much becuase I wasn't comfortable telling him certain things about my life. I don't know why i felt that way but I did. How strong can an online relationship be for you? Do you for some reason personally control your gap of trust and feelings? I know that every of us here knows that online relationship is not 100% secure... for the other party may not even care for us and ect ect... i have been through some experiences before so yes i know ^^ maybe you can tell a bit about your own experience... and tell us how you feel and how or what you did to avoid the same from happening.. or you think that it can happen again for many reasons... hmm.. Which one would you perfer me to talk about? __________________ *\\ I'm done playing your games //* *\\ So go away and leave me alone //*
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fireandice ~always by your side~ Join Date: May 2007 Location: small little hick town Posts: 516 Thanks: 19 Thanked 17 Times in 17 Posts Credits: 10,299	Re: Online relationship 2!! Online relationships ... lol ... wow where to start... I would say that if it's on a friend level only you would have the best results in the world. But if you try and take it beyond that then you are in for a huge uphill battle. Now, I'm not saying that some don't work out but those that do work all have one thing in common. You have to physically meet the person that you want the relationship with, otherwise is really isn't real. On the net you can hide things, including your true self. While most people don't do that there is always the chance that they may. Plus things happen in a persons life when they need someone to comfort them and a screen and key board just isn't the same as real physical contact. Now I know I'm probably going to get yelled at for this post .. but in all reality, all of you know, that to really make things work you have to meet and spend time with the person that you wish to be with to make it ..... __________________
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PhoenixSara Upcoming Legend Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: The deepest Abyss of the Ocean Posts: 578 Thanks: 22 Thanked 21 Times in 21 Posts Credits: 21,262	Re: Online relationship 2!! well you do have to get to kow the person really well and if you still have not seen or met the person you might want to keep personal details to your self. till you know 110% in your heart that you can trust the person and you may want to have a friend with you meet this person from online ( there have been reported cases of date rape) just to be on the safe side. __________________ Angels dare to go where devils don't dare to tread. Clan Rainstorm 2nd Company, Kunoichi Leader http://animalwonders.b1.jcink.com/index.php?act=idx
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animekidcam Newbie Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: hollywood fl Posts: 23 Thanks: 1 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 933	Re: Online relationship 2!! i wouldnt mind. if you get to know some one it should matter how they look to me as long as they are not on the heavy side. you could be an ugly female still wouldnt matter to me because im happy jus to be with some one __________________ [COLOR="Red"]im always in the shadows waiting to attack ,the attacker[/color]
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Descended From Darkness Jigoku Shoujo Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: somewhere far far away from here. Posts: 505 Thanks: 2 Thanked 6 Times in 6 Posts Credits: 9,771	Re: Online relationship 2!! We were talking about it in Sociology. XP. Anyways I'm in currently in an online relationship and I trust my bf. We've been friends for four years. We met on a forum and we became fast friends. There were times when our friendship was shaky and he has apologized for being a total jerk towards me. We have taken things to the next level so to speak. We talk on the phone...well more like I leave him a message and yell at him for not picking up. Its rare when he does pick up but its nice to hear his voice. We are going to somehow end up meeting each other in the near future...But I think that if you someone for long enough then a relationship will work. That same can be said for real life relationships. __________________ Thanx zyta for the awesome set [ Rai's Gallery: Rai's myspace : Rai's Deviantart: Angelic Ruin:SpiritDetective
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ZenAden Newbie Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 17 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Credits: 454	Re: Online relationship 2!! Yeah, look it just doesnt work in the long run. Online relationships, oh boy, yeah look they just dont work. Its depending on the age of course... I can imagine highschool students doing that sort of thing but once you start working and meeting people, you tend to lose interest in that sort of thing. In my opinion, it only really works when the two people really put in some effort into meeting in person. Other than that, meh it just doesnt work. Its cute for little awhile but it just ends up in the gutter.
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