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Kiani Haki22

Ok here is my story.....It started in November we met online we clicked we were friends....for like the longest I was always there for him he was always there for me blah blah blah. We kind of fell in love with each other so he broke up with his girl to be with me (she was also an online gf). Then when we were together we just fell apart. He was mean, I was a push over. So I had it with him I broke up with him then same day SAME DAY got back together(sorry about the caps jsut trying to get my point across.). Everything was great. then things went bad for awhile. then i got a message saying he wanted to be jsut friends so we tried that. that didnt work to well he accused me of telling his new gf something i dont even know of. So I said no of course i didnt do anything i wanted him to be happy. But then he message me back saying he never wanted to talk to me again and i went off on him and blocked him. then he contacted me on yahoo and said he was cheating on me the whole time so I dont believe in online relationships anymore.

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psychical

Well, I'd keep the other person at arm's length still. People show a different side of themselves when they're online, so it's kinda hard to tell. I wouldn't mind meeting someone I've befriended online for the sake of making more friends in real life, though.

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Zatoichi

I think its all just a waste of time and effort i mean why waste all this time talking to someone you never have seen before let alone they could be a sex offender why put up w/ the risk its just stupid. now if you've met them before thats different

Descended From Darkness

That is a common misconception about online dating. You can usually tell about someone by the way they talk. I encountered a person in a chatroom claiming that he was a Navy SEAL. When his location said that he was in Fort Hood. You have to be extermely careful about meeting people online and also offline. The person you meet offline could be a serial rapist, murderer, or even a sex offender. You don't know. Just because you meet someone in real life doesn't automatically mean that its safer to date them. Always be wary of your surrondings.

Also in real life you still have to waste your time talking to a person you have never met in your life. There is a such thing as arraigned marriages and blind dates. But those two entirely different topics that can be discussed at a later time.

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Lasura

Uuuuuuu... I'm missing so many inner thoughts of Ray by not comming here O.o I never would have thought... Oh well I'm glad I'm not the only one thinking bout these things and understanding that an online relationship might not be as sweet as when it's online ^^

Well first mini question I spot is: "How open are you with your online companions / friends (or your on classification as i've said) ?"
Well for that... I am open as a book ~.~ Especially when it's online, because I don't feel shy to speek and I know that, if I say smething terribly stupid, I won't most likely ever see that person ever agan (and if I post something stupid in a forum, I can eddit it off the next day and hope that everyone who wisited the thread was too lazy to read it).
Well I can just simply go on telling bout how my ex hit me in the face to even a just- met friend (if he/she is nice) and if it is a more serious relationship I even tell my deepest secrets.
If it is about being open, online is more off a inpirer than an obstacle.
And I'd also trust the person with everything untill it reaches my credit card password, my real home adress and meeting in real life... Then I must think.

Well an online relationship can be very strong, but it can't be as strong as a real life relationship is (if we're talking about maximums, because an online relationship might be stronger than some real life ones). Online relationships are easier, but real life is different. There are things people can hide when online- I hide my shyness, I can hide my emotions etc., some can hide that they throw around stuff or hit walls (ok I admit it, I too sometimes throw stuff around... but it's soft? @.@), and some poeple might just be maniaks, and are trying to get to their prey by being good liers. That is why I won't easily trust with things that can help the guy/gal get to me unless it's really serious.


Well I actually am really worried about meeting my bf in rea llife. Firstly cuz we both are quite shy ^^ and then we might find out we don't like the scent, or the look, or the attitude or whatever else about each other and break up

So yaah... you can never completely trust an online relationship untill you meat the guy.

But then again... you can never trust any relationship unless it passes the test of time (I mean I was with my ex for 8 months and never noticed the possibility he might hit me >.<)

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