Thread: past (if you could have one thing changed about you)

There would be a lot of things I would have like to change from my past...
Like not getting sucked into peer pressure and not being suck a rebel and not to have fought with my parents so much that now we cannot stand each other...and the list could go on and on and on
But the past makes me what I am right now..
who knows where I would be right now if I altered something...maybe I will not be in Boston right now and maybe I will not be in an ivy league school.....
It would be awesome to change something....but I would never go through with it because I am what I am.......and it suits me perfectly fine

Originally Posted by lebasiara

well from my past if I change anything then I would not be where I am at today. Yes I regret somethings I have done, but, thinking about it, (even I know they were wrong and I shoudn't have done them) I have learned from my mistakes and my falls have make me stronger. Everytime I have fallen I have gotten up stronger.
I am actually thankful for everything I have done and that has happened to me. Those things have made me what I am today.

Originally Posted by crimson

well, i am who i chose to be, and whatever those choices were, and wherever theyhave led me, it has made me who i am today... i believe that in desiring to change oneself by wishing not to hve done something in the past is futile... why not try changing yourself by correcting whatever was done wrong by acting on who you are and who you want to become right now...

because if ever it were true, changing that one event in the past may result in an identity totally different from the you you know right now...

i am who iam, and who i chose and choose to be... regrets do nothing but scar you... action will fill the gap of a damaged heart, not remorse.

That's exactly what i wanted to say ,thank you both ,your past is just who you are now and who you'll be in the future standing up after the falldowns only to make your life better and better with everyday ...
For what i want to change is my desire for anything and everything ... but i guess that's one of the things that the human race stands for ...

Originally Posted by LichGRIFFIN

That's exactly what i wanted to say ,thank you both ,your past is just who you are now and who you'll be in the future standing up after the falldowns only to make your life better and better with everyday ...
For what i want to change is my desire for anything and everything ... but i guess that's one of the things that the human race stands for ...

^_^ thank you ^_^ well if one thinks about it, the problems we are living now would be a lot harder if we had never lived struggles in the past.
Our mistakes and falls makes us take the future falls and problems not as bad as if we were unexperienced. Mistakes makes us learn... they are not pleasant but the outcome is worth...

Their are something I don't want to change at all those choices make who I am today. But their are some that I do want to change. One is that I would try to change my personality by me saying that I want to be more out going and not hiding way from the world. I have the tendency to hide from everyone if I don't want to be seen.

If I could change something about me it would be my two phobias. Telephonophobia: the fear of talking on the telephone (this I can overcome if I need to, but I always try to find ways not to) and the fear of driving, I've been in several accidents. I wasn't driving in any of them.

Originally Posted by girlicious

if you could have one thing changed about you, yourself wat would it be

Although there are several things I do not like about myself, I would not change anything. I know, I know: madness! But if I were to change anything, I would cease to be me. There are people who like me as I am. The slightest change could have radical consequences. I don't want that. I'm living a rather good life, you see; why would I sacrifice that?

Originally Posted by divine_punishment

Although there are several things I do not like about myself, I would not change anything. I know, I know: madness! But if I were to change anything, I would cease to be me. There are people who like me as I am. The slightest change could have radical consequences. I don't want that. I'm living a rather good life, you see; why would I sacrifice that?

I kinda agree with Divine_punishment on this although there are somethings i don't like or think i could have done better i wouldn't change anything since changing my decisions in my past or any of the relationships may mean altering what i am now and what i have. Plus i wouldn't have my little angel with me if i changed that part of my life