I do believe that at first looks are usually more important, simply because you more than likely don't really know anything about the person.
After you begin to know said person I do think that the quality of importance in regards to looks begins to shallow out. For some people, not all.
There are those who think looks are everything and without them a person isn't worth trying for.
I do value looks, but I don't put them first once I start speaking with someone.
I am a very observant person. Some have described me as being a human chameleon.
I am very outwardly adaptable. I'm good at making people feel comfortable around me, through observing what they find comforting.
I can usually read people stupidly fast. I can tell if a person is going to bore me anywhere between 10-25 minutes of talking to them.
As everyone does, I have my positive and negative traits.
Everyone tells me I'm smart, and very eloquent. They tell me I'm odd, but it's interesting.
Someone actually went as far as to tell me I looked like someone of fey origin xD I was actually quite flattered.
I think I'm well-rounded in opinions. I am open-minded and I always try to listen to the other side.
And here are the negatives lol
I'm a very negative person in general, optimism is not my forte. Honestly, optimism makes me want to vomit lol.
I'd rather expect the worst and hope for the best than expect the best and not have been prepared for the worst.
It's happened one too many times to me in my life.
I can be very cold at times, even to those I love. I don't mean to be, it's just how I am.
Whenever I want to be left alone. I want to be left alone.
I have a quick temper, but only with certain things. Other than that, I'm usually a very calm person.
I'm extremely paranoid, I have trust issues.
Whenever I care for a person deeply, it's almost like I develop this collar around my neck and I become their pet. It's like no matter how badly they treat me, I'm still completely loyal to them.
I know what you're thinking "Why stay around someone who treats you badly?"
Most of the people in my life have walked out and not looked back once.
Some of them I tried to stop, others I knew it would happen eventually, and there were the ones I just let go, and didn't say a word.
I always have to try and fix things at least once, even if they are seemingly broken beyond repair.
As for love, I've had the chance to experience it twice and only twice.
Love can be explained in many ways and at the same time it is indescribable.
I do believe that true love doesn't just go away, though I do think you can be pushed out of it and be made to hate someone if they treat you badly enough.
It drives me mad when all these kids nowadays date someone for a week and they go around screaming I love you to one another.
When choosing a lover, looks are more important to me than personality. I can be great friends with a beautiful personality, but I can't be physically attracted to someone who is not physically attractive.
As for my personality, I don't think I could say. I'm free spirited, open minded, and outspoken. I don't pause for the world and I don't bite my tongue. That's not to say I'm rude though either, I'm just not a pushover. There is a way to be clear, firm, and respectful. I guess overall I'm an empathetic straight-shooter.
My personality differs by who I'm around. Overall though I'm very blunt and come off rather rude. I don't mean to be but I guess its my tone of voice and I'm quick to answer. I'm nice once you realize half the time I'm being sarcastic. That is if you just met me. Depending on if I like you I'll eventually be nice and joke around. To people that I know who I don't speak to I'm quiet, calm. I'm talkative if I feel like speaking and very sarcastic. I'm loud if I'm around good friends and joke around a lot.
When it comes to guys I haven't ever been in a relationship. I've dated but that's about it. I see how they dress first they'd still need a a good sense of humor and be charming and witty. I don't really care how they look as long as they dress nice. Occasionally I'll look beyond that if they have a nice personality.
im more of a reserved quiet person, that seems to draw attention. God I remember at my old school. People would flock around and say they like my hair, and blah, blah, blah. They ask too many questions. I'm more of a natrual athlete and a scholar. People say that I bring out the best in people. Others say they should stay away from me because that im nothing but a monster. I can see how they think of me that way. Once I beat the hell out of a group of girls that was beating on another weaker girl. Some of them needed braces and casts for their arms. Im not that bad really. My height and my odd ethnicty many be a little imtimidating but I'm not that bad. Be warned, I dont like bullies. People who pick on others who can't defend themselves. I want to destroy them all, ive seen things that others shouldn't see. But I guess its only natrual to hate the ones that hate others...
I'm a female otaku. What does that say? Alot, I guess. I love the ideal fantasy. But since that doesn't happen. I prefer the sencre approach. I love someone who can make me laugh and isn't ashamed to hug when I feel down. Be considerate and I'm fallen. My own personality is quiet and shy, but happy and loving. Very motherly with childlike tendencies. I hurt easy, but I get rather defensive rather than sad. I'm stubborn, and bullheaded, but I'd do anything for those I love.
I'm grumpy as hell and a few women have been stupid enough to go out with me for more than a day or so...
I'm kind of the quiet type. I'd rather write out my feelings most of the time than tell anyone directly. I'm really non-confrontaional, almost too passive.